Yo,
visa!
Really do appreciate your post, man.
I'm always glad to engage in this kind of somewhat intellectual discussion because it means that I will learn to see someone else's point of view, his perspective on things and why he thinks as such. I always cherish the opportunities to learn but do forgive my limited vocabulary.
Yes, you are right to point out that religion is 'one of the most powerful tools for unifying masses' but in places like multi-racial Singapore where there are people practising many different religions and religious denominations - well, it is difficult eh. I'll go even further to say that among us, there are definitely still people who are suffering from xenophobia.
Yes, as I have said, Shariah law should be respected and adhered to wherever it is imposed upon all Muslims, just like Singapore's tough laws with regards to drugs apply to all human beings while they are on Singapore soil, no matter what nationality, race, skin colour or religion.
With regards to religion being imposed onto children, personally I don't think I was subjected to that, or know of anyone ever being in a similar situation. I don't think my parents have ever thought it necessary to identify and point out other children of different religions. As children, I think we didn't really care, or knew enough to think much about it. Yes, visually we could see that the other children had different skin colours and spoke differently (if they happened not to be speaking in English) but I don't think we had the intellectual capacity to delve further and ask why. Let alone ask about religion.
Regarding apostasy, personally I still believe that a lot of Muslims may feel that they still have much to learn about their own religion. You are spot on when you mentioned about the immense social pressure, and I believe that that is what most people worry about if they ever even consider renouncing their status as a Muslim. Although you may not be directly ostracized, it will be beyond most people to understand and subsequently accept. At least in Singapore, this will be most likely. I attribute this simply to the fact that most people would ask "Are you saying that what we believe in is false, now that you yourself have ceased to believe in it, after believing in it all your life?".
Continuing on this, don't forget that religion is part knowledge and part faith. It's like you have knowledge that your spouse is of decent character and have a high set of morals, but at the same time you know you have to put faith on her not to commit adultery and destroy your family. Yet, you can't do anything if she decides to go ahead and cheat on you. I know this is not the best of analogies :mrgreen: but the keyword here is faith in its most basic form.
So, it is logical to expect a follower of any religion to put faith on the rules and guidelines that a religion provides for him or for her, while constantly learning about the rules that may seem inapplicable or irrelevant to the times we are in. Sometimes, you just can't see how a certain punishment that is recommended is necessary in 21st century, metropolitan, '1st world' Singapore (for example) but you must take into account the history, situation, environment and political climate the punishment was invented. What may seem barbaric to us may not be so in 632 CE, just like eating guinea pigs may appear disgusting to most of us in this part of the world but it is a staple diet in Bolivia.
Hypocritical it may seem, I think most Singaporeans are glad that Shariah law in Singapore only cover the issues of marriage and inheritance (I think).
I have one question for you guys -
How many people do you know are truly experts in their own religions?
As in they know their history, they know the all about the proponents involved, they know the 'rules and regulations' inside out, and they know every single line of whichever religious literatures and their correct intended meanings?
Well, that's where faith comes in.
Some people put faith and let religion guide their lives based just on the fundamentals, some go further to study and understand and learn about, say, the relation between Quran and science, to sort of affirm their beliefs and hopefully understand more about their own existence and why they are here and all that.
So, as you can see - such information can be mind-boggling and complicated.
It's just what you want to do with it that matters.
:-D