What lines/excuses to use to ask a girl out

[wyldeboon]

hecklerkoch: thanks bro... tat chicken rice looks good. u r making me hungry nw... stout... at nite will get!

 

[Stringcast]

If I was suddenly asked out for lunch/dinner, I think I'd go. BUT this is with consideration to that I have a bf and/or have gone out with guys before. If the girl has never been asked out before, she will almost definitely be reluctant or even scared of you. And there's a lot to do with the kind of girl she is, too.

This thread looks like fun. I wanna join in and help ^^

How to tell if a girl is attached or available?

 

[hecklerkoch]

Lol, suaning, sour sour thread this place is becoming.

But hey thanks bro. Got more focus liao.

TO ME... WORK HARD improve, my life short, give it my best

That's the spirit, bro!

Life is short. There are BILLIONS of girls in this world.

Believe me, your heart can and will change.

The nature of men is that they will love different women for different reasons.

No one woman can satisfy every aspect of a man's need. Or something like that.

That's why men stray easily. At least those who can't tahan the temptation, especially those with money and power.

 

[junkiemanxl]

LOL hey all. Saw a post by Dark Heart bout guy girl stuff so decided to start this thread. What are some good tatics/excuses to ask a girl out the first time? As in how would u ask? POST IT ALL HERE! constructive one la...i know some lame ppl will giv nonsense.-_
Sry if there is another place for such post. I dun know where else to put it.
GOGOGO!

Girls help leh. think u ask them out they sense it liao. come on lets face it.lol!

'hey wanna meet for dinner or something?' LOL sounds weak rite..

Dude....
Why must give excuses? It's not like you are dumping her...
One thing a woman does not favor is definitely a man who has low self confidence and esteem.

Just be confident and ask her out as "friends" <--- remember this. it's key!
then let it slowly develop from there.

 

[Angeldevimon]

so it still better to start askin her out as Friends and develop? or tell her straight.
lol! nice postss

 

[junkiemanxl]

so it still better to start askin her out as Friends and develop? or tell her straight.
lol! nice postss

Tell her straight?! That a big NO NO.
Friends first anything else later is Definitely 100% better and works better too.
last thing u need is to make a mistake by expressing yourself too early. You may come off as desperate and needy and tats never good.

Besides, friends first will benefit u in knowing if she is really right for you.

This kinda thing very subjective. different people different approach but do whats best in your interest.

 

[DeathCubeK]

so it still better to start askin her out as Friends and develop? or tell her straight.
lol! nice postss

Unless she asks you out like 3 times a week and you know for sure she's crazy over you, don't tell her straight.

 

[dudelove]

Tell her straight?! That a big NO NO.
Friends first anything else later is Definitely 100% better and works better too.
last thing u need is to make a mistake by expressing yourself too early. You may come off as desperate and needy and tats never good.

Besides, friends first will benefit u in knowing if she is really right for you.

THIS. And I assure you girls will ask you out.

Develop a friendship first. Make her like you alot as a friend, and don't do anything to offend the girl or make her angry. Find out her interest and make sure there's stuff to talk about.

Asking her out will be like no big deal, and she'll think that way too..

 

[junkiemanxl]

i agree with dudelove

when going out with a girl, what you should be doing is creating attraction.
Make her want you and not express deeply on how much u want her.

Anyway good luck with your love quest. It will work out if you play your cards correctly.

 

[dudelove]

And, lets say after all that, you do somehow get rejected, you still have a friend in her.. If she's nice she'll reject you in a very nice way, I'm sure.. Heh

 

[fgl]

wah skali u become good friends wth her bla bla bla - then she reveal ,,, oh I got the hots for another guy ..... sianzzzzzz

I say: GO FOR IT ALL OUT FROM THE START.....

 

[van_halen]

too many times, guys fall into the trap of being the girl's "best friend". she'll just treat you as a friend and nothing more. then end up seeing her get married to another guy.

 

[kimura]

I met a girl at a sporting event - I was taking a smoke break outside the venue -

She smiled, I smiled.

As I was heading back into the venue, I walked past her& told her " Don't break too many hearts with that - as I hinted at her smile - ". She said " Nice ink ". We exchanged numbers.

I called her up about a few days after.

She asked " What took you so long to call? "

That was the beginning of an intensed relationship on many levels.

We went our separate ways after a couple of years, mutually. I realized even though she's an awesome specimen, my initial attraction was because she was a doppleganger for Kelly Hu& as time past, I grew out of it.

B*stard me...
hey I was a music man. Chicks were like happy hour beers back then, one for one.

 

[superpotato_30]

wow! thats one cool girl. hahah

 

[van_halen]

smooth.

 

[Vocalistman]

Use the "2-days rule" when you get her number. Less than 2 days, you come off as a desperate guy longing for a woman. More than 2 days, you killed the sweet momentum you about to have with her. 2 days is just nice.

Always know the rule, always follow the rule.

IMO..

 

[fgl]

I met a girl at a sporting event - I was taking a smoke break outside the venue -

fuh - the man!

 

[zxvc]

boy:hey girl, want me to take you to the candy shop? i can buy you a lollipop.

girl:yea, alright! where is it? let's go.

both walk off and boy turns back and *winks to imaginary camera*.

 

[shaunmaniax]

I think being direct works. I'm not really one to talk though, I've liked my friend for about a year and never had the guts to say anything because I fear the friendship will go sour.

If you want to use a line..

me + you = better equations

we must do subtraction of your clothes.

 

[shinobi]

no need weird tactics and stunts to ask someone out, unless the girl is some bimbo dumb enough to fall for it. not that it's a bad thing, im just saying, maybe your type.

you just need balls, looks and some personality.

just ask her if she wants to go out. if you got a time or place i.e. a PLAN, better.

if she refuses it is not because of your tactic/strategy/gimmick etc. the reason for rejection is something we are too proud to admit: she just doesnt like YOU. that is her preference. you can't change that, or change her, you can only change yourself if you want to.

the other possibility of course is that she is some dumb bimbo who doesnt know what she wants.

or maybe you can use the stunts to compensate for your lack of guts, maybe it will work. but fortune favours the brave, and you reap what you sow. if you don't want to spare the effort then aim lower.