I think guys are usually more energetic than females, and most females tend to think that drums are a bit too rough for them, you know, they want this "Hello, I'm gentle and demure!!!" kind of thing hahahaha. Can relate to soccer.
Actually its also being taught from young la. Cant blame them. Imagine everyday your mother come and say "Eh, you girl leh!!! Can you sit with your legs closed?!" "Eh, you girl leh!!! You must learn to be gentle, cannot so rough, next time no boys like you!!!" and finally "Eh, you girl leh!!! Learn what drums?!"
I know because I experience before, but I guess I have this inborn personality thing: I know I don't have to give a damn about stereotypes. :mrgreen: