The best way to stop liking a person

[jullian_bei]

I heard after you slept with somebody you like you begin to dislike him/her.

* this is not a suggestion, and watch out the age limit *

 

[Dime]

Few pages of facepalming and jungles but no real advice for the poor buddy.Seek the one and only master when its about matters of the heart;FGL!

 

[Dark Heart]

i'm telling him that he doesn't need any excuse to ask anyone out for a casual date.. just need some courage just go ahead and ask.. and he lambasts me and talks some cock about character, brains etc.. which obviously if he had he wouldn't have to come here to ask.. then we have random people coming in, talking more cock, when they don't have any clue.

TS up to you lar. you can continue to talk cock in this thread but in the end you still won't ask her out. if you want people to help you then you gotta face up to reality, don't make excuses for yourself so that you won't have to make the choice of asking someone out. what's the point of you asking for advice then slag people off for it like another softie mentioned?

Hi bro, i am sorry if i irritated you in any way. You sound very agitated writing this post. Pls don't, its just a forum. You age faster.

I agree i dont have as much brains in the case of a relationship, thats y i am here. chill buddy.

 

[Dark Heart]

Wrong place to get your advice anyway. Half of the people replying here probably spend every valentines day with both their hands...



Playing guitar/bass/drums/piano.

Yeah i agree, some people tok like they have nvr been in a relationship b4, tok about balls and stuff, lame

 

[Dark Heart]

Few pages of facepalming and jungles but no real advice for the poor buddy.Seek the one and only master when its about matters of the heart;FGL!

Hi everyone who replied here, i see some really useful comments, i really appreciate them, Thank you very much guys. Thanks for replying

Some comments make me notice my flaws which is impatient, and i also noticed sometimes i like to slag people off which i sometimes should not, except for fun haha.

i nvr realised it until someone mention that previously. thanks to JUSTHERETOLOOK

 

[Dark Heart]

later he asks for links how....

Lol, no need thanks. I have my ways

 

[Dark Heart]

TS: find a new girl to like hahaha. old one dont go new one dont come.

haha, i will try very hard to achieve that

 

[frightlies]

dude.....i know how it feels...one way to go and know other gals!!! it will help u forget her faster!! lets go clubbing n make friends with other gals..want???

 

[optisailor2002]

haha you can also go to MINDEF forums to post this. their relationship forums always provide me with a good read and laugh.

unless of course, you are not in the army yet, or you are out of the army, or you are in the army but have no access to intranet

 

[kimura]

Brutha you're 20, you've got the world waiting for you. Along the way you'll meet new people. probably fall in& out of love more times than there are time signature changes in a Zappa song.

Yea it may seem difficult now but just take a step back& take it easy.

Don't totally 'diss' her out of your life though, you never know sometimes people end up as a better good friend than a lover.

If you're feeling the blues, strum the guitar& write some tunes.

Most important of all, whatever you're going through now is part of the growing up process or rather Life in general.

Enjoy your youth brutha.

 

[DeathCubeK]

All I can say is, you're probably from Poly.

1) Don't ever sms your inner deepermost feelings to the girl in hopes that she will accept you or anything. Biggest mistake ever.

I would suggest you ask her if she wants to watch movie or anything. But try to get closer to her first through stuff like MSN etc. But don't act super interested in her. Act indifferent. I realise that there are 2 guys in life - Guys who go out and just be thick skin and talk/ask girls out and guys who are more of the nice guy persona. I fall in the latter, so maybe I'm not the best person to talk about this, but I do have "some" experience. Think about it, if you ask at least you can get your answer earlier, if you don't, you'll never know and you'll be regretting your past.

 

[cruxgod]

this feels like reading teenage or teens all over again........

 

[Likui]

At least like her for now, at make sure she likes u to a certain extent because you both are in the same project group, it's bad to hate your project mates. So like her for now think she's the best in the world and probably you all can get along together, after the project then talk about it later.

 

[Mirrorboy]

time will erase that feeling

 

[kimura]

For now just let your hair down& do some headbangin' - if you have long hair but if you ain't got none, goatee bang -

" This's a song for ya!!! "

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KiiYlLjNL7c

 

[optisailor2002]

1) Don't ever sms your inner deepermost feelings to the girl in hopes that she will accept you or anything. Biggest mistake ever.

if your point is so that she will dont like you and fade away from your life, then sms her your inner deppermost feelings

then no need worry so much alr. HAHA

 

[PatheinRaindropMoe]

hehe, i hope threadstarter wont come back 1 or 2 years later and felt embarassed about starting such a thread in here.

Anyway, if there such emotional moments, do be assured that all of us, at one point in time, when younger, sure to have such moment of embarassment. Of course the difference being in whether those moment were being broadcast on the internet in such open forum or left deep impression in the mind, but no physical record of happening..

Long live the power of internet!

 

[Dark Heart]

For now just let your hair down& do some headbangin' - if you have long hair but if you ain't got none, goatee bang -

" This's a song for ya!!! "

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KiiYlLjNL7c

Hey thanks bro, the song ROCKSDD

 

[Dark Heart]

dude.....i know how it feels...one way to go and know other gals!!! it will help u forget her faster!! lets go clubbing n make friends with other gals..want???

Hey not bad idea, maybe we can arrange one for softies to come together haha

 

[Dark Heart]

hehe, i hope threadstarter wont come back 1 or 2 years later and felt embarassed about starting such a thread in here.

Anyway, if there such emotional moments, do be assured that all of us, at one point in time, when younger, sure to have such moment of embarassment. Of course the difference being in whether those moment were being broadcast on the internet in such open forum or left deep impression in the mind, but no physical record of happening..

Long live the power of internet!

Haha, embarrassed moments are very adventurous, cos you are doing something which people rarely do