Lead Guitarist that only wants the name

its meant to defend myself being attack.
"soft is not somewhere you vent your anger"
I vent my anger?

"your so defensive, your giving out opinions and commetns yet you cant accept others"
i did accept other ppl's opinoins and I did not rant.

SOFT, if softies here could be nice in their words and not assume, accuse other softies, it'll be a better place. And thread would not be ruined. I know ppl will say im the cause coz they will find ways of making ppl look that u r wrong. I hope somebody can do something to these kind of ppl who only know how to diss ppl once they cant support their statement. U see this is important. Not everyone will support their statement and say watever they want. If there are more and more pl like this, there will be plenty of dishonest opinions in soft and the newbies will be misled. Im not hoping that it will happen but its just the way i see it as logical as it can be. jus my thoughts.

I know there are many other who just read but never post. Do analyze my every statement right from my 1st post, rebutting those who are irrelevant, seriously. And you ppl can judge for yourself.

Thread Ruiners should be ban from posting for the good of soft.com.sg. just my thoughts. Ban me if im one of them.
 
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nevermind bro, turn negative into positive, start finding people and start own band. Can select people and decide who to choose or kick out.

Then time to settle down, write music, record and put out tracks.

Making music more important than trying to justify thingy or rebuking in online forums.

Its like i rather go walk around geylang for actions(makan makan) then to stay at home to look at food blogs and start fantasizing about food i can squeeze, taste, eat
 
Rockito

Anyone reading your post will be able to tell that you have a very Big-Ego. You literally defended yourself against any opinion given by the community and you were pretty rude in your reply occassionally,if that's the case why ask for opinion in the 1st place then when someone gives you their opinion - you couldn't accept it and reply not in a nice manner.

Well I can understand now..Truly You have a very big Ego (even though you will say you're not)...but Away With Your Ego here. This is soft.com.sg

Learn to accept the Do's & the Don't as laid down by the forum or when we (as the Moderator/Admin) says Stop - You had better stop it. Dont challenge us or question us.

What's Right & what's Wrong is not for you to reason it out here with us (not that we are unreasonable), for it is not your Perogative. As simple as that and like it or not you play by the Rules of the game here as laid down by us. This is one important thing you must learn - RESPECT. and respect our decision.

Also, everytime we made a decision as on the Dos & the Dont's we need not have to give you nor anyone a reason for that - So when we say STOP - You STOP, like it or not -to put it more bluntly to you....and no because.If there is a because - It is because we say so and
You just simply abide by it....if you wanna stay here in Soft, if not there are many other Forums that will allow you to say, to do anything without Moderation - you can do what you like there. Not within Soft

Get This Clear.

PS:: If I were you and the decision is still wanting to be a part of this community, lay-off and cool down for now - let this Thread rest. Learn to live with our culture. If not - leave in a peaceful manner. The last thing we wanna do is to put the word "Banned" just below your beautiful nick.

So Be It. - You decide. The choice is yours.
 
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where is your integrity?

I see u talk without any back up on your statement. No support. Say as u please. I wont say you have big Ego. U can say whatever u want about me. I will sin if i talk anyhow about u. :P
If u tink im rude, i have big ego. then i let it be. My parents taught me dont judge ppl anyhow. Unless u have prove, evidence, support then u can judge ppl. Only God can judge ppl without prove coz he can see the truth. Just a little preach from me. U r God here? So do whatever u feel is rite.

Im just being realistic and logical as I can be.

May God Bless You.
 
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Rudimentaldrummer,

if softies here could be nice in their words and not assume, accuse other softies, it'll be a better place. And thread would not be ruined. I know ppl will say im the cause coz they will find ways of making ppl look that u r wrong. I hope somebody can do something to these kind of ppl who only know how to diss ppl once they cant support their statement. U see this is important. Not everyone will support their statement and say watever they want. If there are more and more pl like this, there will be plenty of dishonest opinions in soft and the newbies will be misled. Im not hoping that it will happen but its just the way i see it as logical as it can be. jus my thoughts.

Hope u get this clear too.
 
Hey BlockHead...you get this Clear yourself. People did not assume. If they are misleaded somehow, it was the way you put your words rendering them to percceive it that way.

Hey so, you wanna challenge here and you think you are still pretty smart and that you gonna Win again (Ego).. Think Twice...

Move On & Lay Off this Thread - Let it rest before action is taken against you
 
pls get this thread locked already...no point getting everyone heated up...
it hasn't been any discussion from wat i read so far...just TS making his point, n hoping others would agree with him, n slamming those who disagree...

n btw, i dun have anything to back up my statement too, no support no watsoever...too bad for me...oh no, u win...kthxbye...
 
i concur with mr rudimental drummer.....so far all i've offered are my mere, honest opinions and discussions. You may think its not rude but quite a few times you just shot me down and asked me to read the posts. Do you think that me, a mass communications student would not read before posting? its a direct insult to my intelligence. I merely offered you the "pat in the back" kinda gesture and said hey its alright dude....maybe you wanna look at it from a different perspective....until you proceeded to shoot me down and exert such strong assertions. And i know that its human nature that people will think that they are right all the time. But instead of pointing fingers at the other party and dissing them....we should learn to admit our mistakes as well.

I'll now take the first step and say that whatever has happened has happened, its just a forum discussion anyways, just let it rest, and SOFT is still one of the best places to make friends still. So i wish you all the best in your guitar career,no hard feelings intended, and peace be with you :D
 
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WAH! Got this kind of thread and no one invited me??? :D
I'm shocked! :D

haha, just kidding people!

Rockito, you must understand that this thread has reached a point where there are too many negatives. You've made your point and I actually agree with a bit of what you've said. That's why I PM'ed you.

For the sake of everyone else, as there seems to be no 'proper' end, it's time to give it a chill and move on as one of the site's moderator, Eric has encouraged you to do so.

If you are really good, then time will tell. Maybe not here but as long as your heart is clear and you are sincere. Sometimes, the community is more important that you.

I've had issues here before and walked out of it.

You've said your piece. Eric doesn't want to ban you. I doubt if anyone within this thread wants to ban you. It is not that you are wrong and the others are right. It's just that this thread has reached a point where it's best to give it a rest.

I suggest that you record your own music and post it at Soft's Open Mic, that's the best way to move on. You really have nothing to prove to anyone other than to yourself.

Time to move on from this thread. You owe it to yourself if you seriously love music. Again, there is no right or wrong -as you know. Just GOWIDIT! And do it musically.

Cheers
RoRK
 
This is indeed a thread about a "Lead Guitarist That Only Wants The Name"! You've finally made yourself a name, Rockito. Congrats!
 
I think other than being good musician, we must be able to find a band to fit in . If the band member doesnt feel comfortable with each other, it would be painful.

Let's discuss the thread objectively. Afterall, what we post online is a reflection of our inner character.
 
yes i agree with soft what we post online is a reflection of our inner character.

u can call me Ego and Rude, Rudimental. I let it be. I have my own strong beliefs, principles and values.

Ized, I dont point fingers at anyone and diss them. U may think im rude. dtrulez, I dont only talk abt myself and hope for ppl to agree with me.

I think dis is something educational we can learn from.
YouTube - Korean Drummer Steals The Show
 
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Dude, just let it go man. Sometimes we have to look at ourselves from other people's point of view not because we care about what they think, but because sometimes we're blinded by the things we do that we forget who we are. It is a way of knowing ourselves.

And that korean guy, I believe he's just feeling the music. But thats my point of view.
 
yes I agree. he's definitely feeling the music.

Its true we have to look from other ppl's point of view. Dont be blinded and forget who we are.
 
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soft said:
I think other than being good musician, we must be able to find a band to fit in . If the band member doesnt feel comfortable with each other, it would be painful.

Let's discuss the thread objectively. Afterall, what we post online is a reflection of our inner character.


rockito said:
yes i agree with soft what we post online is a reflection of our inner character.

u can call me Ego and Rude, Rudimental. I let it be. I have my own strong beliefs, principles and values.

I dont point fingers at anyone and diss them. U may think im rude. I dont only talk abt myself and hope for ppl to agree with me.

I think dis is something educational we can learn from.
YouTube - Korean Drummer Steals The Show

MY god, not only your dense, from what i've seen a huge ego. you also seem to be very delusional.

you just took whatever Soft just said and made it sound nice to your ear, and as if he was refering it to us.

*applause*

dude you sure know how to filter.
like that advertisement on TV
"only hear the good stuff"

LOCK THIS THREAD ALREADY.

p.s.
dude you continue with this behaviour, you going to have a hard time here in soft.

Believe in Karma, it will do wonders.
(and im not refering to you, delusional man.)
 
whatever u tink it is Aki. whatever u tink i am.

I agree with all that soft has said in his post. Every word he said is true.
 
and thus means that i am a?

fill in the blanks for me dude.
incase you havent notice ive not those who judge.
in my first few post. i didnt judge you till recently
due to what i see. anyways, nice knowing you.
 
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