what do you guys think about pre-marital sex

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i had one of those instant hot toasted sandwich from NUS vending machine. 2 buckaroos... for instant MASSIVE DUMP an hour later.

guys... stay away from that vending machine unless if you have constipation!!!!
 
guys guys guys ... chill man! i mean, PMS (pre marital sex ah ... not pre menstrual Syndrom k!) is a very versatile yet sensative topic/issue to talk abt! there many ups and downs! Advantages and diadvanteges! based on personal preferences and religion! (who follows The Book 100% nowadays anyway rite!!!)

theres a lot of scenarios to visualise u don wanna get into, EG:

Ur married and go out wif ur wife/husband and someone down the road u meet happens to meet ur spouse comes up to u and say, "dude, i got her/him laid before and he/she was like ...... etc etc"

Ur in bed, and ur spouse says, " Geez babe, so fast? I've had better days den this"

and the scenario list goes on! im sure u can picture for urself some unwanted scenarios rite !?!?!?!

Anyways, marrying/being a Virgin is a good thing too! atleast u knw she/he's not 2nd or 3rd hand "property"! and is a "clean" person!

God ... Geeezzz ... this topic i think can reach upto wat? .... 40++ pages??? 8O

Overall, some are ok, some aint at all! some would like to save it for dat special someone, some juz cant gif a fark!

its a universal discussion! and everybody's reviews will be based on his/hers perception of wat he/she tinks abt it!

or ..... leading his/her own life !!!! hehe! *cough* *cough*

juz be safe not to "contract" anything!

Sex is fun, sex is great, sex is a workout (oh yea it is)
play it safe and be responsible for ur own decisions!

im sure many ppl, not only me, hv seen damn young couples with a baby in the arms, and say to urself, " this one sure Shotgun case ",
well thank god it aint u!

Cheers!
 
To an extent, RolandLim speaks true. Because by statistics, 70% of divorce cases r results of cheating. 90% of those cheatings r due to you-know-very-well..sex plays a big part in marriage, unless ofcourse u r deeply religious, pious (then sex is only for the holy purpose of giving birth). But anyway sex or no sex, 60% of long-lasting marriages tend to harbour couples whose love for each other fade away in later years. If Man were not greedy & dissatisfied, the world would've been a bttr place.
 
I think casual sex is the same as two monkeys in the zoo boning each other. Without responsibility, without a sense of fulfilment at the end of the day. Of course YMMV, but in my eye thats that. Free, wild love is cheap.

The fact is most guys out here is not ready for responsibilities. So when something happens you young punks just say "Abort", or simply "bochup". Wow so much for being a man eh? Oops.. I meant young punks. :roll:

Save it for marriage for the one who did likewise. The guy with the diminishing return theory/concept put the whole idea across perfectly.

More than my usual 2 cents.
 
gutturalpiss said:
To an extent, RolandLim speaks true. Because by statistics, 70% of divorce cases r results of cheating. 90% of those cheatings r due to you-know-very-well..sex plays a big part in marriage, unless ofcourse u r deeply religious, pious (then sex is only for the holy purpose of giving birth). But anyway sex or no sex, 60% of long-lasting marriages tend to harbour couples whose love for each other fade away in later years. If Man were not greedy & dissatisfied, the world would've been a bttr place.

I've had enough of statistics presented in half. When presenting statistics, please watch your denominators. Otherwise you give a skewed picture of marriage and divorce in Singapore. According to Singapore published statistics on Divorce and Marriages, the divorce rate in 2004 is 7.4/1000 married resident males and 7.6/1000 married resident females. So your statatics of lies only within this number of the entire population of married people.

Enough is enough. People are getting wrong ideas through this thread - and harmful ideas. James, please do something!
 
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