uncontactable/play out buyer thread
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guiatplayer
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Haha lol. I got a guy in my phone book. Named him as biggest f*cker. Haha ps three times. Showed screwed up unsorry attitude. Demanded more. If you are reading this and feel guilty. Its time to freaking stop.
AcousticElements
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same thing happened to me just last saturday. suppose to meet at ct hall. went all the way there and he didnt pick up his hp. didnt reply sms. zilch. nothing. wasting my time! still got the balls to tell me wat shirt hes wearing! mo&^$er fu*%ER.
marilyn
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hey ben i think u did the right thing by exposing the guy. sounds like you got a
guy wo is on a serial rampage of screwing ppl's time n money up. if no money
then don reserved or anything cos its just wrong. if reserved cos u got work n
other committments we all understand that cos we are singaporeans we need
to work and got family gfs and stuff so sometimes we need to make time out
and arrange. But having no money and yet wanting to buy stuff unless the
seller agrees then then its up to them already. as a buyer we should have the
decency n responsibility to at least make sure our bank account have money
then we reserved something but not no money still reserved it thats just
wrong cos if anything cocks up like not being able to sell guitar or pay din
come in on Time is simply just Not an excuse. so ben pls highlight this
person to us so that we can avoid him and sent a warning to all irresponsible
ppl out there. thanks. this is actually my 2nd soft account for selling stuff. if
you see that i am actually a noob here sorry i am Not. PLS ben go ahead
with wat u doing and don give chance. no point. he din give u one in the 1st
place.
guy wo is on a serial rampage of screwing ppl's time n money up. if no money
then don reserved or anything cos its just wrong. if reserved cos u got work n
other committments we all understand that cos we are singaporeans we need
to work and got family gfs and stuff so sometimes we need to make time out
and arrange. But having no money and yet wanting to buy stuff unless the
seller agrees then then its up to them already. as a buyer we should have the
decency n responsibility to at least make sure our bank account have money
then we reserved something but not no money still reserved it thats just
wrong cos if anything cocks up like not being able to sell guitar or pay din
come in on Time is simply just Not an excuse. so ben pls highlight this
person to us so that we can avoid him and sent a warning to all irresponsible
ppl out there. thanks. this is actually my 2nd soft account for selling stuff. if
you see that i am actually a noob here sorry i am Not. PLS ben go ahead
with wat u doing and don give chance. no point. he din give u one in the 1st
place.
studiosoundscape
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well done...
hi everbody,i already pm him twice or so ,dis are wat i type
i quoted my sms to u :" i see,bishan is near,sms u again k..reserved 4 me k.tq"
i say i sms u again,meaning if i don,so u don hav to turn up 1st la at bishan.
so i thought i already sms u like i sms others dat i hav to sell some of my guitars 1st,n dats my bad.i;m deeply sorry.i can see u wans the money fast.
real deal is today sunday n future,but a guy felt sorry last nite can't make it( n i do hav others who i pass in order for him having it) and i jus understand it he has reasons to step back,its part n parcel of business..and if he does makes it,then i still stick to my werds. n do still when there's my sales to help me buy yors n others as well.
should i say dat my name in softies is spoilt by u...if u jus sms me or pmed me,things can werk out better.
my sales is rather slow cos i am busy wif my werk too.i'm only free sunday.
which i found out u hav church.i am sorry here,cos our timing is incovenience
i am selling my stuff too, n need pedals for myself n to help a few bands.n why would i wan to play around? u see....
i thank u to clear dis as " closed"
i don want to spent much more as i hav about 8 guitars(which to me is a lot cos i hav lesser time playing)n wans to sell some of it to help me invest in some pedals.
i heard u are a gd guitarist n a performer..n well versed wif pedals too,i respect dat.
others may hav jus change the hp no. to create futher nuisance or escape from his mistakes. and i stand tall claim myself forward cos i noe
its jus a misunderstanding n my bad..n dats a man
pls don jus kill people when u noe he is also selling something in order to purchase other thing...n me also noe n has met some great sellers n performer here in softies.
unlike those who don sell anything ,or sell something small to get something big (but still is not dat professional to expose them)
cos if we cultivate the unity n gd products,they would want to buy or refer)
a few of my guitars can earn me back quite some of cash to be a living proof dat i am here to buy not only yors but others as well.
u rather jus said "waste yor time?"
when u open shop,u still hav spend time to attend to would be customers who would query about yor product ,n also order to get u referrals,even a bad one will turn up good when u always hav an open mind,cos we live in a small world man,i hav quite a contact,n so hav u...
u are great attitude person i heard,n why u did dis ? jus to alarm others?
great people don do dat,they inspired directly to dat person not indirectly.
i am not trying to justify,cos i noe my mistakes here
and
i would wan u to noe dat i did post my ads here ...cant u jus see tru it? i got a few guitars to sell....i did reserved some pedals from them,n i did ask for apology as it will takes a longer time to sell mine...wat are u doing? pls get back to me 1st laa,..
my mistakes is i should hav tell my conditions,n if they would want to reserved then it is a deal,or if its too long,then i would request to back out in order for others to benefit wat i reserved...
tq for reading,nex time talk to dat person,not dis way dude..cos i noe now my mistakes.
i quoted my sms to u :" i see,bishan is near,sms u again k..reserved 4 me k.tq"
i say i sms u again,meaning if i don,so u don hav to turn up 1st la at bishan.
so i thought i already sms u like i sms others dat i hav to sell some of my guitars 1st,n dats my bad.i;m deeply sorry.i can see u wans the money fast.
real deal is today sunday n future,but a guy felt sorry last nite can't make it( n i do hav others who i pass in order for him having it) and i jus understand it he has reasons to step back,its part n parcel of business..and if he does makes it,then i still stick to my werds. n do still when there's my sales to help me buy yors n others as well.
should i say dat my name in softies is spoilt by u...if u jus sms me or pmed me,things can werk out better.
my sales is rather slow cos i am busy wif my werk too.i'm only free sunday.
which i found out u hav church.i am sorry here,cos our timing is incovenience
i am selling my stuff too, n need pedals for myself n to help a few bands.n why would i wan to play around? u see....
i thank u to clear dis as " closed"
i don want to spent much more as i hav about 8 guitars(which to me is a lot cos i hav lesser time playing)n wans to sell some of it to help me invest in some pedals.
i heard u are a gd guitarist n a performer..n well versed wif pedals too,i respect dat.
others may hav jus change the hp no. to create futher nuisance or escape from his mistakes. and i stand tall claim myself forward cos i noe
its jus a misunderstanding n my bad..n dats a man
pls don jus kill people when u noe he is also selling something in order to purchase other thing...n me also noe n has met some great sellers n performer here in softies.
unlike those who don sell anything ,or sell something small to get something big (but still is not dat professional to expose them)
cos if we cultivate the unity n gd products,they would want to buy or refer)
a few of my guitars can earn me back quite some of cash to be a living proof dat i am here to buy not only yors but others as well.
u rather jus said "waste yor time?"
when u open shop,u still hav spend time to attend to would be customers who would query about yor product ,n also order to get u referrals,even a bad one will turn up good when u always hav an open mind,cos we live in a small world man,i hav quite a contact,n so hav u...
u are great attitude person i heard,n why u did dis ? jus to alarm others?
great people don do dat,they inspired directly to dat person not indirectly.
i am not trying to justify,cos i noe my mistakes here
and
i would wan u to noe dat i did post my ads here ...cant u jus see tru it? i got a few guitars to sell....i did reserved some pedals from them,n i did ask for apology as it will takes a longer time to sell mine...wat are u doing? pls get back to me 1st laa,..
my mistakes is i should hav tell my conditions,n if they would want to reserved then it is a deal,or if its too long,then i would request to back out in order for others to benefit wat i reserved...
tq for reading,nex time talk to dat person,not dis way dude..cos i noe now my mistakes.
shenanigans
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fenderben. forgive. just like how god forgave you.
Benster
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i forgive already. but that doesn't mean i condone his acts.
just bcos i go to church, (or a mosque, or a temple) doesn't mean u can do all kinds of nonsense to me & get away with nothing.
don't turn this thread into a religious debate, it was never meant to be one.
i posted his details not out of judgement, but only to help others not to be tricked by him.
many people have asked me to post & i'm helping them.
whatever excuses or pitiful story he posts, he has told it to many people before already.
you guys are cool people. i'm sure you know what to do la.
just bcos i go to church, (or a mosque, or a temple) doesn't mean u can do all kinds of nonsense to me & get away with nothing.
don't turn this thread into a religious debate, it was never meant to be one.
i posted his details not out of judgement, but only to help others not to be tricked by him.
many people have asked me to post & i'm helping them.
whatever excuses or pitiful story he posts, he has told it to many people before already.
you guys are cool people. i'm sure you know what to do la.
On the Flip side what are your thoughts on this one?
Sealed the deal to buy a crunchbox i didn't even negotiate price just pm'd that i'd take it, couldn't meet at the first stated arranged time, suggested another timing, withdrew the amount i needed to give him, the next day was still waiting on the seller to confirm a new meet up time, but into the night i get an sms saying that he has sold the pedal to someone at a higher price an hour ago?
Two Things:
a) letting off steam.
b) Just wanting to know if, this kind of practice is ok and should be expected on SOFT?
Sealed the deal to buy a crunchbox i didn't even negotiate price just pm'd that i'd take it, couldn't meet at the first stated arranged time, suggested another timing, withdrew the amount i needed to give him, the next day was still waiting on the seller to confirm a new meet up time, but into the night i get an sms saying that he has sold the pedal to someone at a higher price an hour ago?
Two Things:
a) letting off steam.
b) Just wanting to know if, this kind of practice is ok and should be expected on SOFT?
studiosoundscape
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first with the gold seals the deal. simple
Joses
New member
Angman:
My personal beliefs are that if the seller agrees with a buyer - and vice versa - on price/meeting time/etc., then they should honour that (gentleman's word)...
However if there is such a case as a last minute offer, the seller should have informed you of that offer and given u the chance to match/beat it - just common courtesy (even if u won't match it, at least he's informing u) - rather than simply go off and sell it without even letting u know til after the sale...
Just my very humble opinion
My personal beliefs are that if the seller agrees with a buyer - and vice versa - on price/meeting time/etc., then they should honour that (gentleman's word)...
However if there is such a case as a last minute offer, the seller should have informed you of that offer and given u the chance to match/beat it - just common courtesy (even if u won't match it, at least he's informing u) - rather than simply go off and sell it without even letting u know til after the sale...
Just my very humble opinion
cbr400rrr
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you should have double confirm with the buyer on the day itself before going down to the place to deal....if no reply of sms then,the deal is off...play safe..then you wouldnt be so angry..but you still go down hoping that the buyer will turn up as promised earlier...now what?it seems you are so desperate to sell your item...to its just a norm kind of things when you are selling something here...its not something very serious that you have to post his number and name here...besides he didnt reply to your sms or call..indirectly means he didnt wanna buy..simple as that..to me whoever offers more and can deal earlier would be my preferred customer...this is business..even if someone reserve the item,i would tell the person that somebody offer higher and i would like to sell to him..no forcing,free will..
hub4thailand
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hey deenrock i am one of the first person to kinda meet you because you wanted to buy the orville a while ago, i waited for 2weeks then you say the same thing which you say to some of theses people that you have guitars and you need to clear, hey bro no body is gonna hate you if you dont buy from them but just dont commit to something you cant keep then it wont look bad on you and will be easier for the sellers....thats my 5cents thanks.......
i post not because i wanna offend anyone hope this thread ends
i post not because i wanna offend anyone hope this thread ends
shenanigans
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that would be a really good idea..
j_m_s
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i wholly agree on the user rating system! Like last time maple to "fame" thing. haha.
well, deenrock. Speak for thyself. Its not only one or two people already. more than five? If you have done so, just admit and im sure all of us will be willing to forgive us. Change you attitude towards the sellers yeah? And PLEASE reply smses faster/ Just last night i told you by 9.28pm. Then u sms by 9.45pm....
well, deenrock. Speak for thyself. Its not only one or two people already. more than five? If you have done so, just admit and im sure all of us will be willing to forgive us. Change you attitude towards the sellers yeah? And PLEASE reply smses faster/ Just last night i told you by 9.28pm. Then u sms by 9.45pm....
basically its like this, if u dont have the MONEY, and ur not sure WHEN u can have the money, don't reserve and don't offer to buy.
Ur just stalling the sellers sale.
Unless of course the seller is contented and have the patience to wait till u can sell off ur gear and buy his (which might take a day or a year, who knows?).
How can someone say "Hey, reserve for me." Then a few days later say, "Ahh, sorry ah, u have to wait awhile lor, i not yet sell my own gear. I sell my one then i buy ur one okay ah?"
You just wasted a few of the sellers days...
Ur just stalling the sellers sale.
Unless of course the seller is contented and have the patience to wait till u can sell off ur gear and buy his (which might take a day or a year, who knows?).
How can someone say "Hey, reserve for me." Then a few days later say, "Ahh, sorry ah, u have to wait awhile lor, i not yet sell my own gear. I sell my one then i buy ur one okay ah?"
You just wasted a few of the sellers days...
