Haha, let me tell you my story
.. I'm currently 15 going 16 and about, 8-9 years ago, my parents got me into playing piano. First was yamaha then went on to private teachers. I was lazy and i normally don't practice or do my work until the last minute, so i was always fearful of lessons lol.. then i had this big fierce female teacher who taught me from i think grade 3-5?.. It was a few years.. i really hated my piano lessons so much that i wanted to stop playing piano.. i told myself i would never use the piano in the future. Soon after that, i was enjoying my free time, without being fearful of my scary teacher LOL... then after awhile my mom ask me go learn pop piano, then i say ok lor.. for fun.. When i started pop piano, i was like, wow, you mean music is actually made up from chords?.. Things started to get more interesting, ( I realised ABRSM syallabus and usually teachers teaching classical don't really teach u other things besides the exam pieces and theory which is needed to be done -- they dont mix practical with theory), learning more about chords and stuff. I started dabbling in digital music at around 13, at that time i think i just stopped my classical lessons, a few months later i took pop. So at around 14, i learnt more about chords and i figured out how to compose, so i usually composed on the computer, using a sequencer called cakewalk. Omg, i couldnt believe music was so damn fun, + composing songs on the computer was absolutely thrilling, moreover i was obsessed with game soundtrack music. Last year, i took my grade 6 theory to improve my classical, and now i appreciate it more than last time. Now i aspire to be a gamesoundtrack composer in the future haha, as well as an audio engineer. Kinda surprising, come to think of it, 2 years ago, i actually hated my piano, now i love it
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Yea and one more thing, i don't believe in grades, after grade 6 theory, i don't wanna take ABRSM syllabus liao, now i learning piano and theory stuff from a teacher preparing me to go berklee next year
.. So it doesn't matter if your child doesn't have high grades, if she has the interest, its all good. Example, although i have many friends which are higher in grade, they don't know anything bout composing and such stuff, they only know such thing as practical and theory exams, and how to play fast
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