To TS and any shop owners, I think it pays for you guys to have a Standards of Procedures (SOP) for handling customer complaints and other issues.
SOPs are actually Standard Operating Procedures. They are usually created when you have a large number of staff, and it becomes impractical to have a free-for-all management style. In smaller enterprises, these procedures are usually not fixed, and are usually quite fluid. Mainly because the number of staff are small, you are able to creatively change the process to suit the situation. In a larger organisation, where such freedom becomes dangerous, SOPs are useful in handling staff. Not customers. They are guidelines (and in some cases, rules) for staff to follow to perform their task.
By establishing SOPs within a small organisation, you are adding unnecessary layers of red tape that will prohibit flexibility. SOPs are not necessarily applicable in every aspect.
As to the customer being King, don't forget that the other person on the other side of the counter is also human. How much abuse can you take? There are customers who are abusive, and those who take advantage that you are the staff (I call these "vultures"), and think that they can walk all over you.
There is no such thing as a rule of thumb where "Customer Is King". If the store owner feels that it is in better interest for them to lose that customer, then so be it. And these scenarios exist every day. There are people out there who are simply not worth entertaining.
so what type of management works for small stores? see no touch?
See my post above. Small store management usually is a lot more flexible. Furthermore, SOPs are usually more for operational matters. Logistics, Inventory, Accounts, etc etc.
What you are talking about, are customer service guidelines.
But guidelines or not, when it's a small operation, the proprietor is there to decide on the spot. Why would you need guidelines on this?
I find something odd here. The TS posted something on ettiquette. Yet, the almost immediate responses are defensive, borderline accusational and blame-throwing. The question still begs: who bears responsibility? What happened to simple "stand-up-and-face-it-like-a-man" responsibility? What happened to plain old "respect for other people's property"? Aren't these things that everyone learns from their fathers and mothers? Did our parents raise cowards and responsiblity shirkers?
I have personally on the rare occasion added some very minor damage to guitars. Even at Swee Lee. I have taken that guitar, though no one was watching me, to a staff (usually the senior ones) and explained the damage I caused. They assess it, and usually let me off. I am prepared to pay for any damage I caused. Why? Because I CAUSED IT. Why run? Why shirk responsibility? It's not a matter of rules here. It's a matter of what's ethically right.
Also, if you know you clearly cannot afford to pay for damage, regardless of the testing guidelines of the store, why try?
Would you go and lift up the skirt of a pretty girl knowing you cannot afford to bear the consequences?