imjk : teasing-shy is naturally people who are shy, can remain the way they are (be themselves), don't have to force/fake be mr party boy prom king. but not be anti-social-like-shy cos that defeats the purpose, no girls are going to approach you if you're antisocial.
visa : like what blank says, we can all chip in our cents worth and it doesn't change anything about you because i-know-i-know-you're-going-to-reply-back-with-a-"easier-said-than-done" line. it's one of those michael jackson - man in the mirror case. either you do it and learn the hard way (life isn't easy anyway) , or you don't do it and repeat chorus for the rest of your social life till end result it'll still comes back to this stage.
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