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Just tell her you like her. No point beating about the bush.
The shortest route from point A to point B is a straight line!

If she reject you ... it's not the end of the world.
 
huge mountain in your pants you mean.
honestly you're quite pathetic, hopefully you'll look back at yourself and laugh soon.
i'm sorry someone has to say it.
 
Oh come on, we've all been there before.

The one good piece of advice I can give you is to be yourself and try to get to know her better on a purely platonic basis first. Trying to be somebody you're not or trying to be "cool" in order to woo a girl never works out, purely because the relationship is not founded on truth. If she doesn't like you for who you are as a person, even if you manage to jio her by being someone else, sooner or later the relationship will not work out. And trust me when I say that a relationship that ends up there is 23678765432 times more painful than a relationship that never takes off.

Just my 2 cents, hope it helps you.
 
Whatever it is, never like someone based on their looks. Seriously, personality owns physical appearance, although it's a plus point and we sometimes can't help but pass comments on the person's appearance.

If it's more than an infatuation, then tell her about it. If she doesn't feel the same way, forget about it. Move on with life.

Hard for guys to understand that. Many guys think with their dicks. Seriously speaking. It's probably the male species' biggest and most costly flaw.
 
Hard for guys to understand that. Many guys think with their dicks. Seriously speaking. It's probably the male species' biggest and most costly flaw.

I have to agree to that, instincts are a big problem, but they are easily overcome if you have a brutally rational brain.
 
befriend her but dont be her BFF (best friend forever). I agree you have to get close to a girl first before you woo her. But also you can't be just a friend forever and wait for something to happen. So to sum it all: Be a friend, but make yr intentions clear but not obvious from the start. I hope my somewhat contradicting advice helps haha
 
Ignore the useless advice on being yourself and being BFF or what bullshit. :mrgreen:

Be a bad guy, be bold and make her shiver and pant in her panties.

Sometimes, a girl just needs a real man.

Just make sure when you look at the mirror, you look like a real man lah.

If you look pasty and scrawny with emo floppy hair and you've only got hair only on your armpits and head and your nether regions, then need to think of other strategies lah.

Like Russell Peters said -

"BE A MAN!!"

:mrgreen:
 
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