Any musicians exp tis b4?gif up guit or gf...

^ I dig! hahahahahaha. ok anyway, I think you need to sit down and talk to your girlfriend, seriously. Any relationship only works with proper communication. who knows? you may find out things that have never crossed your mind before.

talk. it's good for everyone :lol:
 
if yr gf ask u to choose between guitar or her.... i think she is juz not mature enough.... no offence... juz stating the fact

i hereby suggest u 2 option...

option 1: prove her that she is nothing to be compare to yr guitar, and yr guitar is nothing compare to her... let her know both she & the guitar is different..... as for if she doesn't support u in music. maybe she is uz not into music, let her be... coz u also wish that u will hv to "freedom" to do things u wan... that explains it...

option 2: tell her that since she ask this question..... you think both of u shld slow down in this relationship... make known to her that you are not choosing the guitar over her, but you might need more time to understand her before both can make the next step...

this is my 2cents...
 
Ichiro

she jus basically want a yes/no ans...guitar or her...all those explaination had already been done lots of time b4 liao wat dun compare guitar and r/s together or wat she and guitar is diff......she noes the freedom to do things i wan so she say jus wish me best stuff like tht...

option 2 nt applicable at all...
 
wahhhh since when all become kaypoh ha.....talk like auntie from market.hahahahah....keep the problem to yourself.....dont have to tell ppl about it....just do whta you think is right...if you think guitar can give you happiness,they go and marry the guitar..sleep with the guitar maybe screw the guitar if you are horny..hahahaha...leave your girl to other guys who really appreciate love and relationship
 
Guys, for the girls' point of view, its TOTALLY different. She's not being immatured.

We all have to understand. Girls are different.. okay fine, like guitars are! Some guitars sound GREAT played clean. Some excel at distortion. Its the same for girls... some require the attention , and they give a lot of attention back too. Some are like us, want to do other things first, or some require less attention.

So yeah, come on lah. Its also our fault.
 
damn, i dropped a gf when i was 20, for the guitar/music. still am earning a living out of various musical avenues playing guitar today. never regretted dropping her those 16 yrs ago. Music is bigger than her ultimatum, hands down.
 
Shredcow! Thank you, I love you! HAHA. This thread is interesting cause it's mostly from a guy's point of view, I guess girls should read this to find out what's going on in a guy's head huh. heh.

Seriously though, from a girl's point of view, she could be feeling really insecure if you pay more attention to your guitar than her, maybe she's wondering just how important she is to you. I know I'd wonder too.

So take my advice (haha.) from earlier. Talk to her (:
 
I guess if the gurl loves u enuff & she noes u love playing guitar, she wldn't put u in such a dilemma.

Instead, she will try to accomodate & work things out rather than whine & try to have things her way. Then again, its frm a guy's point of view, so not very much valid to some :wink:

Com'on gurls, we're waiting for your precious FEEDBACK!!
 
Girlfriend, many fishes in the sea, can find.
Guitar, many guitars hanging at bras basah, no problem.
Anytime can find both.

Your own happiness?
Your own time to yourself?
Your TIME?
Yep.
 
nic1327
yea, i understand wat u mean. My ex gf used to think that all because i liked to change my fishes(i keep fish, n often buy n sell them), i'd one day change her off in the same way. But gf n hobby are 2 totally different issues! She couldnt understand that, and thus felt insecure based on the way i changed my fishes. :oops: she was, however, very supportive of me and my band. Guess there are no fixed methods to apply as every guy and evey girl is different. Just sharing my experience. :)
 
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