Slight hijack of this thread: My old timer muso kakis (those who were playing in bar bands etc from late 60s - 80s) used to tell stories how back in the day....alotta bar girls would almost fight over musicians. They'd buy muso drinks, cigarrettes and the so called gung ho ones might even buy some musos they really liked guitars & gear..... it seemed like being a "band-boy" especially playing in a rock & roll band was the "in Thing" to do...pro / weekend wise or whatever.... Girls would go "Wahhhhh...you musician ah?"
Fast forward to today... ansd many Musos tell me that bar chicks will only go after the dude who drives the fancy cards, have the gold cards etc etc.... or sarong party girls who have major pinkerton syndrome.... Girls would now go " oooo...errr so you musician ah...?"
I have seen genuine love and affection by girls for struggling musos who love them for themselves and their craft but in my opinion it's more the exception than the norm nowadays....
Having heard feedback from these two diffirent era of musicians, I wonder if the situation really is so..? Old timer / newbie musos out there - what have you guys expirienced and do you think that this is really the case?
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