C'est La Vie
Yes, in a way it is true that some people are contented and happy with 9 - 5 jobs or stable shift jobs. As long as they have enough to eat, a bit to spend, can support a small family, can somehow afford the debt for a car for the family to zip around in - life's good. Hey, to society - that is what's perceived as success right?
To others, like me for instance, I have just taken the plunge and quit my post at a statutory board and see for myself how it feels to be able to have much more control of your time, your own life. After 6 years working 9 -6, I have concluded that the money is just not worth my time and sanity, not to mention my health. So, I decided to take a breather and strike out on my own.
To me, a business is a business - rarely can somebody make tons of money in a short time. So, right now money is not that good for me but personally I am taking that as a holiday - a relaxation period. When I have work, I have money. If I don't, I'll just make do with some savings or get a little creative with things that I previously purchased but no longer need. But of course, I am taking steps to make my venture flourish and become profitable enough for me to be financially independant in the future.
And how does it feel?
It feels damn GREAT!
Previously, my moods, my health, my social life and my sanity were like half controlled by my work environment and the people. Especially the incompetent bosses who don't exactly know what they were talking about. I worked 9 - 6 and that made up like 3/4 of my day already and I felt that there is much more to life than just work. Of course, there are some lucky people who get paid a lot to do stuff that they love to do. Or at least enjoy.
So, I think - to each his own.
If you can find a 9 - 5 job doing something that you love, and have excellent colleagues who are competent and be good friends outside of work - good for you.
If you think you are a risk-taker who dare to take on life and dare to face adversities and ignore people who think you can't make it - then go for it!
At the end of the day, it is your life and it is your version of happiness that you seek.
Not others'.
:-D