hahaha... this thread is so fun to read! anything involves sex is FUN!
If you wanna do it, do it responsibly.
Read up about using condoms and how to use it.
And for the ladies, break up with the guy immediately if he doesn't wanna use it. He's an ass and no, he can't hold that tiny leakage that will ALWAYS happen, and that will make you pregnant.
If you don't wanna do it, then don't.
This is a matter of choice.
No point telling kids these days to abstain and the beauty of keeping it for the right one. (I'm a firm believer that practise makes perfect, so you know which side of the fence I'm at)
No point telling kids these days what they can do or what they cannot do.
The forbidden fruit always taste best.
Teach them the pros and the cons.
Show them the consequences if things go bad.
Give them the choice.
Empower them.
Let them be RESPONSIBLE for their own actions.
Kids these days are much not much smarter than we were but a lot more exposed to a lot of things.
The exposure gives them ideas be it right or wrong.
Unfortunately its the unwritten responsibilities of old farts like us to educate them.