blueprintstudios
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when the topic of "sexy" is being mentioned. i read abit on the newspaper today, I think they're talking about "fashion" sexy. dressing.
other aspects of "sexy" can cover what you see/hear on the surface, like curves/voice.. or if not what lies beneath (ahem, THE MIND), like character/thought.
I don't know much about fashion, cos my opinion on it is that when someone asks me "do you find that girl sexy?" , I ask back "my personal view of 'sexy' or what the majority/industry labels?" i'm sure we all have different ideas of what kind of dressing on the girls is defined as sexy to us. whether is it the OLs, or the Emos, etc.
because nowadays "sexy/hot" is easily described in a few words , "lower cut on the top, higher cut (miniskirt) on the bottom. and mid riff missing." + "high heels - so the women walks in pain (if newbie) and her butt looks like it's sticking out, so it's perceived as
'sexy'" , the mascara, the lipstick, and the mani/pedicure. and of course the hair, rebond/curls whatever. it's the woman thing to "decor" themselves. but end of the day everyone has a different opinion. unfortunately singapore is mainly "monkey see monkey do" , so some easily-influenced individuals will go "oh, that girl is sexy because everyone else say she's sexy."
but i do agree some of the opinions stated on the papers , some local girls whom I used to know are very sexy in their own right, like yes, they're speaking singlish. but they're the ones who usually speak their mind outright in your face ... in simple singlish. haha. I used to know an angmoh guy who loved singaporean lians apart from their looks but cos of this in-your-face character that makes them "sexy". but he can never get them.. cos lians only interested in bengs. and how many times you heard local models say this ? "I used to be a tomboy when I was young." but as tomboy-like as they are, they appear "sexier"/more attractive than the feminine ones.
and i remember reading the side column saying the ones who dress ordinary in the club actually stands out more than the "hot girls" who try to dress up just to keep up. and that typical visual label of "woh look at that girl, wear until so sexy she must be wild in bed." obviously those are the opinions from shallow guys who never bothered to know the real insanely wild ones dressed up as geeks. but this isn't a sex forum, so none of us needs to know the details.
then again "attractiveness/charm" cannot be confused with "sexy" . like for example, hey that girl plays the drums. I got a thing for her. so what is that "thing" ? do you find yourself unable to keep your eyes off the way she plays the drums, her intense concentrated facial expression? or do you find yourself STARING at a certain bodypart instead? a skipped heartbeat? or extra heartbeat for the extra blood requirement somewhere else?
beauty/lust is in the eyes of the beer/beholder.
20cents worth, thank you for reading.
other aspects of "sexy" can cover what you see/hear on the surface, like curves/voice.. or if not what lies beneath (ahem, THE MIND), like character/thought.
I don't know much about fashion, cos my opinion on it is that when someone asks me "do you find that girl sexy?" , I ask back "my personal view of 'sexy' or what the majority/industry labels?" i'm sure we all have different ideas of what kind of dressing on the girls is defined as sexy to us. whether is it the OLs, or the Emos, etc.
because nowadays "sexy/hot" is easily described in a few words , "lower cut on the top, higher cut (miniskirt) on the bottom. and mid riff missing." + "high heels - so the women walks in pain (if newbie) and her butt looks like it's sticking out, so it's perceived as
'sexy'" , the mascara, the lipstick, and the mani/pedicure. and of course the hair, rebond/curls whatever. it's the woman thing to "decor" themselves. but end of the day everyone has a different opinion. unfortunately singapore is mainly "monkey see monkey do" , so some easily-influenced individuals will go "oh, that girl is sexy because everyone else say she's sexy."
but i do agree some of the opinions stated on the papers , some local girls whom I used to know are very sexy in their own right, like yes, they're speaking singlish. but they're the ones who usually speak their mind outright in your face ... in simple singlish. haha. I used to know an angmoh guy who loved singaporean lians apart from their looks but cos of this in-your-face character that makes them "sexy". but he can never get them.. cos lians only interested in bengs. and how many times you heard local models say this ? "I used to be a tomboy when I was young." but as tomboy-like as they are, they appear "sexier"/more attractive than the feminine ones.
and i remember reading the side column saying the ones who dress ordinary in the club actually stands out more than the "hot girls" who try to dress up just to keep up. and that typical visual label of "woh look at that girl, wear until so sexy she must be wild in bed." obviously those are the opinions from shallow guys who never bothered to know the real insanely wild ones dressed up as geeks. but this isn't a sex forum, so none of us needs to know the details.
then again "attractiveness/charm" cannot be confused with "sexy" . like for example, hey that girl plays the drums. I got a thing for her. so what is that "thing" ? do you find yourself unable to keep your eyes off the way she plays the drums, her intense concentrated facial expression? or do you find yourself STARING at a certain bodypart instead? a skipped heartbeat? or extra heartbeat for the extra blood requirement somewhere else?
beauty/lust is in the eyes of the beer/beholder.
20cents worth, thank you for reading.
