The best way to stop liking a person

[Dark Heart]

I got a friend i like very much, but i sense that we are not going to be together.

The thing is now i am in the same group as her, doing project, have to see her everyday.

The more i c her, the more the feeling stays. damned!

I keep scolding my mind that if i like her i am a pig, and " i don't like her" etc


So now i keep running around toking to different people and girls to help keep me distracted from her.

Still thinking of her a bit.

You guys got any tactics to stop yourself from liking a person who you think will not last with you?

 

[van_halen]

you are guy or girl?

 

[Dark Heart]

I guy la, do i look like girl to you?

Now you know, sometimes people mistake me for girl and i play along to tease them haha

 

[van_halen]

what's your age?

 

[Dark Heart]

I am 20, r u a counsellor or something, why you sound so skeptical?

 

[ThisIsTheEnd]

And how do you know that you're not going to be together? just ask her la.


Talking to other girls generally work but i don't think a Music forum would be the right place to ask these things.

 

[Dark Heart]

Probably

But musicians also have human sentiments and feelings, fellow softies sure have some experience to share.

Nah, i think the feeling not right. Better dont ask. She always so serious about work.

Sometimes we argue a bit about minor technical software or hardware stuff.

 

[MaCcA]

time is the best medicine

 

[wasp]

Just ask her if she wanna go on a casual outing with you. movie eg. If she doesn't reject then probably got chance.

 

[Dark Heart]

i think to date a girl out the excuse have to be more than that

Girls not stupid sia, really! wat ever shit you thinking she can feel it or see it, becos of your voice tone and body language.

If you have other excuse to date a girl out, pls do state them

I will really appreciate.

 

[van_halen]

ask someone out for a casual date also need excuse? i don't think you need an excuse. you just need some balls.

 

[mysteryunited]

I got a way.

The best way to stop liking someone is to actually find a weakness about him/her and whenever you start thinking of liking him/her, just think of that weakness of him/her and i can assure you that you will not think of being with him/her for a long time to come.

 

[Dark Heart]

ask girl out for a casual date also need excuse? i don't think you need an excuse. you just need some balls.

Yeah i know... no worries. I will develop a larger ball than you ok haha.

Asking a girl out dont entirely depends on balls, its your brain and character which comes into play.

Of course i am not here to ask for tips on growing bigger balls, i am asking for brain and tactics.

 

[Shinodax]

To stop liking that person, You need to like another person.

 

[keithC]

Yeah i know... no worries. I will develop a larger ball than you ok haha.

Asking a girl out dont entirely depends on balls, its your brain and character which comes into play.

your brain is something you have with you since young. your character is who you are, period. these have been with you since forever and will not change anytime soon. so just ask her. dont reply here til you asked her. hahaha.

ok to be honest, one way to stop liking her is to find out more about her.

 

[Dark Heart]

To stop liking that person, You need to like another person.

erm... ok, i lucky the other person i like will stick with me, or not lucky the vicious cycle will continue

 

[Dark Heart]

ok to be honest, one way to stop liking her is to find out more about her.

sounds interesting, what cha mean? Could you elaborate.

 

[van_halen]

Yeah i know... no worries. I will develop a larger ball than you ok haha.

Asking a girl out dont entirely depends on balls, its your brain and character which comes into play.

Of course i am not here to ask for tips on growing bigger balls, i am asking for brain and tactics.

if you have the brains, character and balls then come here post ask for what to do for what?

some things don't have to ask. this kinda thing also need to ask, really facepalm.

 

[Dark Heart]

then come here post for what?

Asking for experience to share. You got a problem?

 

[van_halen]

let's not turn soft forum into aunt agony forum.