oohh, yup, tetsu from larc is definitely good, when i was first introduced this band from my fren back den, besides mezmerized by hyde's look, i was realli into tetsu bass run! not to forget billy sheehan. i played the guitar, however i saw him playing solo with paul gilbert in a video, straight away i tell myself his one person i need to remember, very good showmanship.
i think wad u need to do is not to tell ur fren anything,but to contionue on wad u believe on, and carry on with faith in yourself, one day ur fren will understand.(yo, Lppier, i did saw ur pic of tommy emmanuel, does thiese words sounds familar?haha i just trying to help gee, anyway if u do know any place in singapore can get any TE stuff pls do pm me thanks alot)
however, frankly speaking, even as a guitarist myself, it sucks to hear somebody actually said such words to a bass player.