Cheez
Moderator
Perhaps we can try to see things their way. If we own a shop selling musical instrument, then in come a person wearing slippers and ask for the most expensive guitar to try. A few things will go through the seller's head - 1. Is this person going to buy? 2. Will he damage it? 3. What if this is just somebody coming in to have his afternoon jam in the shop then leaves?
I'm not protecting the person who made the remark posted by the theadstarter (and I believe we need to understand the whole thing in context to be sure why he said it). The seller should have watched his words and be more sensitive. But then, people are people. Just as there are bad sales-person, there are bad customers. Although I'm sure none of the SOFTies here are bad customers, the sellers may have encountered scores of them (and maybe one just before the threadstarter stepped into the shop). So in a way, I think their wariness of customers are understandable, although it may not be justifiable.
So perhaps, we should ask ourselves how we can minimise these experiences (short of changing all the sales-persons - which is impossible since people will always be people, and will have their bad days).
1. Ask nicely.
2. Dress appropriately (not in a suit, but certainly not in slippers)
3. Others????
I'm not protecting the person who made the remark posted by the theadstarter (and I believe we need to understand the whole thing in context to be sure why he said it). The seller should have watched his words and be more sensitive. But then, people are people. Just as there are bad sales-person, there are bad customers. Although I'm sure none of the SOFTies here are bad customers, the sellers may have encountered scores of them (and maybe one just before the threadstarter stepped into the shop). So in a way, I think their wariness of customers are understandable, although it may not be justifiable.
So perhaps, we should ask ourselves how we can minimise these experiences (short of changing all the sales-persons - which is impossible since people will always be people, and will have their bad days).
1. Ask nicely.
2. Dress appropriately (not in a suit, but certainly not in slippers)
3. Others????