"Recently i dropped bass guitar because i couldnt find like minded individuals who want to create a new style in music and travel around the world.
Another friend of mine has decided not to pursue his dreams of becoming a professional drummer because of the lack of opportunities available in this country.
There are probably a few thousand more similar cases like this going on in the local music scene, talents dropping out after giving up hope of any signs of advancement in this industry."
It's posts like these that really piss me off.
If you chose to give up on your dreams because, wow, you weren't able to go on international tours, that's too bad for you. If your friend gave up on his dreams because he couldn't get enough love and support, then that's too bad. No big loss to the rest of us.
If you were so quick to give up on your dreams the way you did, chances are you never deserved to live them out in the first place . Dreams are dreams because they are something that people aspire to attain, some for most of their lives. And if dreams were so easily met, then what point would there be to them anyway? They'd just be like condoms - when you need them, use them and then throw them away.
I was in a band called Ronin. And while I will never be the first to testify to actually being a fan of my own band, I'm also really glad we worked as hard as we did. Loved us or hated us, there was no denying we existed and we played and gigged like crazy. During the time we formed, there was even less of a scene as we have now. There was even less media support, even fewer gigs and a smaller number of people interested in local music some 5-6 years ago. Still, that never stopped us from trying as hard as we did. 200 gigs in 2 years, no full-time jobs and nothing but a pocketful of dreams and aspirations to keep us going. And at the end of the day, we made a living out of it through corporate sponsorship and from organizing our own shows, selling our own tickets, doing our own albums and living out our dreams because we believed enough in them to work hard for it.
Let me emphasize that NONE of that dropped at our feet the way you seem to expect your dreams to materialize. To get what you want out of life, be ready to work for it. Instead of resigning yourself to a lifetime of regrets at never trying harder, why don't you create your own opportunities? Start your own newsletter, or go around the streets promoting a gig you're playing. How about dedicating a few hours a day to promoting your music on MySpace? Or honing your craft through practice. Or seeking out media coverage? MAKE the opportunity happen rather than EXPECT it to fall on your freakin' lap.
Bands like Electrico took 10 years to get to the top of their game. Bands like The Boredphucks aka The Suns sacrificed a huge chunk of their lives to move to Melbourne to pursue their dreams. That's the way it has to be if you want your so-called aspirations to happen.
If we were to all have your mentality and your lack of a backbone, that would be the day that there'd be no bands or musical identity to call our own. Meanwhile, thank goodnes the rest of us actually have the b*lls to try. There are so many great bands like AVA or The Full Pledge Munkees or West Grand Boulevard or Allura etc to be proud of. You're right. You should have given up. Go be a bedroom jammer for all I care. Why should I respect a musician who doesn't even respect or work for his own dreams?
Even then, why do you have to drop an instrument just because you don't get to 'tour the world'? Makes me wonder why you even want to pick it up in the first place? If you really love something, you'll get into it and stick with it regardless.
I'm not sorry for sounding harsh. You deserve it for putting up such a lame post. You really need a virtual slap in the face.
Yours,
Levan