IMO: whatever floats your boat.
i'm not a big fan of MTV and commercialised music, but you have to admit that bands that play like motley crue, skid row, AC/DC, with all that stage presence - they're exciting to watch live, as well as cover their songs and put that "oomph" into the music.
on the other side, there's music with the "oomph" but without the stage presence, like Dream Theater and a few japanese rock/metal bands. they make really good music, they're also exciting to watch live, but they lack the factor that makes you wanna scream your lungs out singing the lyrics to the chorus (unless you're a die-hard fan).
well then you have teen-favourites, like modern pop punk and emo. IMO, they write good songs. some bands really put a lot of heart into the songs. the only problem is that the songs don't stand out, it doesn't have the impact where you can hear it once and remember the tune or title and go buy the album.
Then there's jazz, a huge world of music, from jazz standards, styles like bossa, reggae, etc., jazz-influenced pop (a good example would be Maroon 5), jazz ballads, and so much more. technically, they're on top. in the department of "feel", they're up in the clouds (how often do you see a pop rock guitarist let loose and solo to his heart's content?). when it comes to groove, they've got it set like a concrete mold.
but how many people appreciate jazz in Singapore? i'm not saying you have to LIKE it, everyone has their own taste, but generally speaking, the world recognises good music when they hear it, DO SINGAPOREANS ACT THE SAME WAY? or do they shun genre's they do not like to listen to, mocking on the areas that particular genre lacks?
simply put, i feel that there are a lot of musicians as well as music-lovers who are not able to free their minds and appreciate music as it is; this island is filled with frogs in wells. i have been trying to expose myself to many different kinds of musicians, gigs and styles of music, and altho singapore may be small, we DO have a very big variety available.
so if you think all that i've said made some sense, here's a little advice...
go to more gigs, even better, go for PAID* gigs. go to a teenager gig, listen to some locally-home-made songs. wear ear plugs if u dont like noise. go to a metal gig, listen to some technical tight bands. wear ear plugs. go to a rock gig, listen to some catchy songs and watch the bands have fun. go to a jazz gig, try to appreciate the way the musicians voice themselves through their instrument. go to a pop rock gig, jump when the chorus is catchy and everyone is high.
watch some great musicians on youtube. go borrow some DVDs from the library.
*(pay for your music, just because music is free - u can download, tune into the radio, etc - doesn't mean that musicians should perform for less and organizers should do "community a favour".)
And enjoy music for the rest of your life =)
Cheers!