Hey people, it seems like we’re expecting a full house this Saturday and that is cool. However, we have to have some “house rules” on the day itself. Things that are generally common-sense but very often we overlook them due to circumstances.
So after consulting with the committee and sub-committee, we’ve adapted the following guidelines. Special thanks to WX.
1. Don’t be afraid to speak
If you’re new to our community, taking the step for the first time to speak publicly to a group can sometimes seem intimidating. Don’t be afraid to jump into a discussion. We have a very supportive community that serves up heavy doses of knowledge, support and enthusiasm.
2. Feel free to “chill” and listen
While we hope that you’ll become an active participant and join in our discussions, you’re welcome, of course, to simply hang out quietly until you feel more comfortable speaking.
3. Agree to disagree, respectfully
We invite and encourage a healthy exchange of opinions; disagreements are okay. If you disagree with a member’s post or opinion, by all means, challenge the opinion. However, any challenge must be given with a sense of respect for the other person. The real objective of community is to understand each other, not to attack others and convince them that you’re right. Name-calling, insults, “flaming” and attacks are not appropriate and will not be tolerated.
4. Don’t attack others
Because this is so important, we’ll say it again: Don’t attack others. Personal attacks on others will not be tolerated. Challenge others’ points of view and opinions, but do so respectfully and thoughtfully, without insult or personal attack. Harassing, offensive, vulgar, abusive, hateful or bashing communications—especially those aimed at sexual orientation, gender, race, color, religious views, national origin, or disability—will not be permitted. Before you say something that is intended to embarrass, humiliate or harass another person or group of people, stop and think first. Harassing communications are considered to be those that may cause distress, embarrassment, unwanted attention or other discomfort.
Such members may be barred from further meets at the Committee’s discretion. This would be very unpleasant for all of us, but we trust that we will never have to resort to that.
5. Treat others’ instruments like you would treat your own
Appreciate the generosity of those who are sharing their precious instruments by always asking before playing it. If the owner is uncomfortable with it, there is no need to take it personally. You have the right to ask, the owner has the right to say ‘No’.
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