... then get laid again.
No really. I still believe he should stay off the pillow till he gets his techniques right. I know drumming requires a certain level of physical dexterity and strength, but that comes in later, and that's mostly applicable to drumset drummers. Come on, this guy doesn't even have a practice pad to practise on! :lol:
The pillow method originates from Dennis Chambers, who uses a pillow and 2 phonebooks sandwiched by his elbows, his theory being that it conditions the specific muscles so its easy to play on loosely tuned drums and to move around the drumset with ease.
Both of which, I believe, are things new drummers don't have to worry about, yet.
Stick to the pad. Work your chops there, work your grooves there, work your rudiments, anything. And most importantly, have fun and get laid, as blurred mentioned.