abortion

[satch]

anyway in all seriousness, if your sole reason, which is already evident from your explaination of wanting to abort the kid is because you cannot afford to raise it.

Then have your gf give birth to him/her, and give up for adoption. that way, u dont kill YOUR child, and you also give joy to another family that is incapable of conception.

Don't be a selfish and irresponsible prick, should have really thought through your actions before shooting where you shldn't. if you can't handle the consequence, why do it? Same as how you're telling us in context to your inability to raise the child.

 

[balloons]

get registered with ROM, let her deliver the goods, then pass it to either your in-laws or your parents to take care. After finishing NS, get a full time job immediately to support the child yourself,and ask your wife to quit whatever she is studying and get a partime job to help support the financial aspect. What is the loss? you love her right?

 

[extremers]

get registered with ROM, let her deliver the goods, then pass it to either your in-laws or your parents to take care. After finishing NS, get a full time job immediately to support the child yourself,and ask your wife to quit whatever she is studying and get a partime job to help support the financial aspect. What is the loss? you love her right?

i can totally relate to that story. had a friend whom fall under the same circumstances. proud father of two now.

 

[lemonade93]

so a fully developed human is equal to a foetus? Would you rather abort a foetus or kill a person? Its a life form? Says who and at what point do we call it human? is removing the cluster of cells from the womb 2 weeks after pregnancy murder too? In Islam, the baby receives it's soul after it was born, if I'm not wrong its a month or two after they are born, so it also depends on what you believe too

maybe if you abort the embryo and not the foetus, it won't be murder

yeah i know I sound like a soulless di**

btw you could always give it up for adoption

actually, 4 weeks, then its heart starts beating, but thats besides the point...

 

[satch]

a zigot is a living organism!

 

[predz23]

actually, 4 weeks, then its heart starts beating, but thats besides the point...

wow so they have developed an organ that pumps blood, thats absolutely human....

 

[gutturalpiss]

Even an homunculus is human!

 

[blueprintstudios]

johnf : the person you should consult is your freaking grandparents. they will tell you before the gumball machine started running , your grand parents had nothing but for some reason I assume you have alot of uncles and aunties. so WHAT IS "financially prepared" ? lol. i'm not christian but pls don't put the word "god" right next to "there's no way we're keeping this baby if the pregnancy's confirmed".

1) you unknowingly signed (with your PENis.) the emotional contract that you will take responsibility should your partner whom you're having sex with gets pregnant
2) yet you already had abortion in your mind SHOULD anyone who has sex with you gets pregnant.
3) now you're asking soft forum for answers on how to get your unfortunate girlfriend to agree to abort by being physically/mentally prepared for it. what next? new thread asking how to raise funds in a short time so you can pay for the abortion?
4) don't "Mates" us. usually I'd go "welcome to soft" but you disgust me right now.

I hope the aborted foetus comes back and does other future aborted foetuses in future a favour by biting your 8=D off and haunt you for the rest of your life. gd luck!

 

[retardedrummer]

a zigot is a living organism!

zigot or zygote? or they both diff? haha.

I pity the thread starter.
1)Seek professional help(dont be embarrassed! u gf and YOUR baby at risk)
2)Tell parents and ask for advice
3)Confide in someone whom u can trust. dont tell any friends after the word spreads like mad... and ppl start making fun of u and affect ur decision. Tell someone whom u have 100% trust.
4)School counsellor?
5)confide in teachers. they may let u leave school to consult help. my friend who had anorexia didnt come school for 3 weeks- 1month as she seeked helped from a doctor.

 

[blueprintstudios]

> some of u are really ignorant... <-- talk about the one who barely knows how to use a condom. by the way , don't be waiting out for people here who agree with your solutions. you will lose.

want an even workable solution? buy yourself all the insurance you can then go kill yourself. will the money to your gf + your child. money is no longer a problem from here on. especially your existence.

999¢ worth

 

[paradox.]

consult everybody who is affected by this. see what they wanna do about it. i mean. its a life. and its like a sin to kill it right? whatever you do. your loved ones will 100% support you one way or another. by the way. condom broke or what? sorry just have to ask. no offence though.
BTW. you got to be mentally prepared too, coz who knows ppl with no decency will just insult you and stuff.

 

[love_replicate]

threads like this get all the attention don't they? what are the chances TS was just trying to troll around.. -.- 2 posts...

then again, that'll mean i fell for the troll too. <:

if all this is actually real, i am more worried about the girl than TS though-.-

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inb4 thread turns into big-scale debate over the rightness and wrongness of abortion

 

[burping_boy]

AGE!!! AGE MATTERS!!!
if the girl, or both of you are underaged, it will change alot of things because of the law, legal responsibility, procedures and consequences.

if you don't mind, please reveal your age.

 

[blueprintstudios]

P.S : I apologise for being harsh to johnf IF you're under the age of 16. (but still wake up your idea)

otherwise statement holds

 

[foxxylady]

I don't know why some of you guys are kinda "bashing" the TS and talking shit about a zygote/fetus not being a human life since it doesn't have a heart. A life is still a life, and it's worth cherishing damnit. Don't you cherish your own lives too??

Going through an abortion is a very traumatizing experience, and even more so for the woman... Which I assume 99% of you aren't. In my humble opinion, I feel that the TS should seek counseling from a professional if your girlfriend is really pregnant. I saw many pregnant women at the ROM (when I went to collect my docs and yes I'm married) so they were probably in the same situation you're in. I even have a few friends who had kids at a young age and I know they contemplated aborting their child but now they're happily enjoying motherhood. I'm not suggesting that you and your gf should go the same route, I'm merely telling you that abortion isn't the only solution. Consult with a councilor and your parents before going to the doctor. Females below 21 need parental consent for an abortion anyway. There are other alternatives such as adoption or even letting your parents and her parents help you raise the child... I'm certain your child will love you unconditionally no matter what... You don't need a reason or condition to love your parents right? I know I would keep the child even if I'm not financially ready because that is something I can change, but aborting a child is something that can't be undone. And yes, some may say talk is cheap but I meant what I said based on personal experiences.

And also, please use protection in the future because not using it can cause colossal ramifications. And this is going out to all underage/unmarried individuals as well...

I hope you will make the right decision for your girlfriend and yourself. Take care and all the best.

 

[growlingsoulpup]

1) you unknowingly signed (with your PENis.) the emotional contract that you will take responsibility should your partner whom you're having sex with gets pregnant.

That, sir, is a post of the highest Win.

And also, @TS: You still haven't answered the questions regarding your age and your girlfriend's opinion on the possible pregnancy?

 

[lemonade93]

irregardless of whatever said here, it's all up to TS to make a decision, for all we know, love_replicate is right, and its just some guy who has too much time on his hands...

BUT if he IS telling the truth... there's only so much we can say, But the decision is his lke i said, but i for one am against abortion.... dude :S

 

[Vaiyen]

... but i agree with some of u, if u cannot even support yourself, how do u support ur child?

even if i keep the child, i would be 'killing' the child in a more terrible way, by being unable to feed him, get him to school and etc....

so, all i am asking is please, opinions from the matured, realistic individual....
...

Your mind is already closed to the idea of keeping the child. so no point discussing anymore.
To you, being "matured" and "realistic" means to abort...
But i think it is really the irresponsible n cowardly way.

You talk abt finances - you and your gf have parents rite? They can tahan for u until u find a job rite? U telling me they absolutely not willing even if they see u're sincere?
How many years until u start working? Raising a single child is not that expensive.
In any case, there are many social services around.

Face it. You just don't want to face up to the consequences of ur actions.

 

[maranello243]

predz23, i don't know what you're getting at with Islam and abortion. Your comment is vapid and useless. I am a Muslim and i feel it is morally and ethically wrong to abort. Don't try to be a pretentious prick and start preaching your ideas, just because you THINK you have the backing of the Quran. To TS: please don't make rash decisions. It is paramount that you take into consideration the feelings of others (like your GF for e.g). Because even though you have solved your problems, you might cause more problems for these people. And no i'm not being ignorant because i didn't state a defined solution for your 'mess'. Being ignorant is not wanting to face your problems.

 

[foxxylady]

I do agree with some of you that TS is afraid to face up to reality and that's why he's here in this forum. Please TS, be responsible and face the consequences. No one will think that you're a prat if assume responsibility.