just practice much and make yourself and your band the same standards with the rest of the world, if not, even better. Instead of blaming the world or people that you are trying to make listen to you, why not be better? if your friends come and say you dont sound good,.. then prove to them that you will get better.
Create a benchmark for youself and strive towards it, when you reach it.. go further.. I've always believed that if you think ur good, there is always someone much better than you and im not only talking about guitar players. Bands in general too.
Reason why i say this, i have so many friends that have approached me to ask me to attend their gigs. I did. And after the show was a proud march from them. Rockstars? Maybe. They probably feel so proud that they have nailed a gig, i could understand that. Afterall, they've worked hard for it. No reason not to be. BUT. they always forget about the surroundings. Singapore, as the smallest scene in the world(probably). How would they fare?
I attended recording sessions where musicians cant record to a metronome, recorded and rerecorded a 6 second solo a million times. have a rhythm track that goes on the same way for 6 mins with a flat g string. and many others i wont wanna type it all out.
Is this, the Singaporean standard? When you talk about comparing with overseas bands, yes i think the listeners SHOULD compare us with international acts, aren't they benchmarks? If you made a decision to play LIKE them why cant people compare you TO them? if you know what i mean.
All in all, when we reflect on ourselves further, we get much better, we stand out more among the rest. Thats when you will be discovered and you will move on to greater things. When that happens, don't stop and think you've done it all, strive further. There will never be an end. At this rate, you will always be one of the best in the eyes of the audience.