What should I do to support?

[lacrymosa]

hey jugman.. i'm sure you're a good guy yourself that's why you have over a thousand posts in less than a year at SOFT! jk..

 

[tim098]

i think going for jam sessions whenever he asks you too is really supporting and makes a guy feel great. also try and understand when here and there ESPECIALLY before a gig or audition he has to jam on usual "go out" days/nights, instead of taking ur frustration out on him. But thats quite hard too lah i think. Just as long as he knows u like him being in a band and want him to pursue it, its great already

 

[lacrymosa]

ok, question: how to avoid supporting a guy you love in a way that does not make you look like you want to have a piece of his fame also? (i fear the guy would get the wrong idea, or is he just selfish when he feels this way?) HMM~

 

[ikilledkenny!]

haha, omg.. u worry too much, seriously if both of u were faithful and really love each other, nothing will go wrong.. i think..

 

[lacrymosa]

no no it's just a discussion. this is also a question on behalf of someone i* know..

 

[palmmut3d]

haha yeah seriously you worry way too much.
this ain't an exam so relax abit yeah? yr like mugging for possible ways to receive A* (not A1 ah... 75 too low alr haha)

and as for the hogging a piece of the fame, if yr so afraid don't get him the strap w your name on it.
pple'll obviously ask if they saw some random name on the guitarist they're watching.

 

[lacrymosa]

have i passed? yay! haha! ok great guys. thanks for the advice. i think we should stop now or i'll worry EVEN more..

 

[lacrymosa]

As a heads-up, to all ladies out there who has a boyfriend/spouse involved in a band (actively or not), try to heed the advices here and don't worry too much. i also learn that things need to be done sincerely. "What's better motivation than seeing the woman who loves you so much and vice versa headbanging to what you play" - Akiru*