Just to clarify
Hello Fun,
I am the bassist in question, who almost got into a fight with keith and his sound guys.
You personally knowing him does not mean he carries his nice personality equally with people he doesn't know. I understand that people have off and on days. However, at work, you NEVER raise your voice at anyone, especially when I DID ask him politely. I even squatted down to talk to him. Alvin said I requested for an explanation. It was even lighter than that. All I asked was, "is it ok for me to know why?". In no way was I formal, condescending, or demanding. I was asking casually and lightheartedly, merely trying to strike up a conversation/discussion. Look, the girl in charge of the event knew nothing regarding tech stuff. I simply thought I could discuss it with the sound engineer of the day. AND in most venues I've played, including overseas, musicians CAN discuss with sound engineers about tech stuff. I've always approached people with caution, especially in singapore, becos many people here work with an attitude - and get overly defensive for nothing. I did not insult his knowledge, did not demand anything, was not rude at all, did not raise my voice, and definitely was not "asking for trouble", as keith so defensively jumped to yell out. Best part was, I clearly explained to him that I wasn't looking for trouble, just wanted to discuss. At that point, I hadn't even raised my voice OR gotten rude. And he snapped. Yes, I got aggressive after that, but that was in response to his threat. when someone throws whatever he's holding hard onto the ground, jumps up on his feet and SCREAMS at the top of his voice " ARE YOU LOOKING FOR TROUBLE???", that qualifies FULLY as a threat to attack. and when he lashed out his arm at me from less than 30cm away, I had no idea if that was meant to strike me or just to point at me. Naturally my instinct would be to flick it aside. So yes, there was mild contact, but he looked like he was about to strike anytime, and I'm not really the kind who'd stand by and let someone attack me - especially when I did nothing to provoke it. That being said, WHY WAS IT SO HARD FOR HIM TO TAKE 5 MINUTES TO EXPLAIN? It would possibly only have taken 2 minutes even! As for the other two tech guys, who ironically asked me to chill when they were the ones taunting me, should've just minded their own business and let things cool off, especially when they just didn't have the gall to carry out their taunts anyway.
I understand that you want to defend your friend. However, you weren't there - or MAYBE you are one of the tech guys who were there. if you are, or if keith is reading, let's all meet up and have a talk. it's good to clarify, because I REALLY want to know why there was a need to treat me that way. and be man about it - be HONEST and reasonable.
also, you don't know me at all - to imply that I wasn't polite from the start, seems a little judgemental.
it's strange how all these little arguments can seem so big, when it's possible that if the parties involved, including you and me, were to meet in a different light, COULD have become good friends or working partners.
You can choose not to believe what I say. But I believe God is watching, and my conscience is clear. On that day , the ones looking for trouble definitely wasn't me.
One thing though, I have no idea why this issue was posted up. It is tiresome to even pursue such matters. Hope we can all just let it go, cos you never know when we'll ever need to work together again. Just remember that having one more friend is better than making new enemies. Look, I DON'T think that keith is a jerk, an a**hole or some trouble-making guy. As I've said above, people have off and on days. I was polite, and he had an off-day. So be it. World is too small to be quarreling so much, and we have but one life to make friends and work alongside each other.
Erm. "World peace".