OMG WTF is this?

[Aki S. Ian]

no dont get me wrong ive got nothign againts this. i have friends who crossdresses. honestly i think it takes alot of balls to do that. i was just on the subject of that gwen stefani event.

but i seriously think this fella is a she.

 

[blueprintstudios]

oh hey, look that blogger kid looks like the HUGE big girl from CJ7!

 

[dir]

and that big girl from CJ7 is really a guy too, c'est la vie

 

[jeepers]

It's a Shim.

Sorry but I've got major issues with guys wanting to be girls and girls wanting to be guys. It's wrong on so many levels.

 

[Aki S. Ian]

whats a CJ7...

oh well like i always say.

"to each, his/her own"

 

[ArmPitMan]

Oh well at least he has enough boobs already.

No offence to anyone yah! :mrgreen:

 

[ahkiatt]

His name is Chris and he's 26. So yeah. He's not a girl.

 

[Aki S. Ian]

eh? how come you know?
you sure about that? its not nice to defame...

 

[faberglass]

wakakakaka :mrgreen: no offence.

 

[roninriot]

"aiyah respect his freedom lah..."

We are respecting his freedom, and he should respect our freedom to express our reactions too. It works both way dude

Besides, this topic wasn't started off disrespectfully. I just said, I find it looks weird. By all means, if a guy can pull off cross-dressing, I find it admirable. Not everyone can do it.

It is definitely a guy, quite obvious in the YouTube video. My issue is more of the effectiveness of his cosplaying. It's like asking a choir singer to half way break into a hard hitting gangsta rap. Or asking a virtuoso guitarist to also try to be the world's best pogo stick jumper in a week. It's not impossible, just not advisable.

 

[Aki S. Ian]

OMG, ronin....the way your phrase your views is hilarious..
anyways hwo do you know its a him?

 

[roninriot]

From his blog

"When I post the video, some called me brave others called me fool or joker. The whole ideas was actually to put a voice to my girl look Zermine. Lots of flames popped up and that do not come as a surprise. I knew it would come the moment I posted it up. Sometimes, I wonder if there is really so many people dislike me or hate me. Or was it a manifestation from one's hate ? I know alot of people , male or female, prefer slim , girlish or bishie guy to crossdress. Guys like me, big size, fat often seen as a sore in the eyes , not suppose to crossdress, ugly and disgusting. I know , very well in fact about that. I have tried very hard to improve my girl look and my weight problem for these 2 years. Although to some, I am a failure but to me I see as a success. My friend Lucian , 7 years ago , told me to stop but I did not. Sometimes, I wonder when is the right time. Is it now ? In this brand new year ? I have been battling against all the flames and tried to make it looks positive and as an encouragement. It has been 2 years since the first day i wore a wig and dress out. This 2 years was both fulfilling and exciting, I gained lots of experiences and friends. I have stop dressing out for shopping since my friend have left me. 2007 like I say in the video, very exciting , doing things I could not imagined I could achieved. Belial was right. I have been dressing up as girl for most events , big or small, making Zermine to be seen and noticed by alot of people. That was my goal and I have achieved in getting people to know Zermine. I did it and for 2008 , I am not sure."



Okay, I think this is a pretty admirable thing for him to say.
It is brave of him to stand up for what he believes is true to who he is.
And that is more than what most people can lay claim to.
Except maybe, the last line was a bit of an anti climax "i am not sure"
It would have been cooler if he showed he had a clear objective to continue proving his skeptics wrong.
Kudos to him for that.

Okay but let me explain my point.

Say, I'm an albino (I am) and I decide to go all gangsta in the hood and go to say, New Jersey or wherever they are, and I'm like "Yo, I'm the true dope yo!" and they look at me "You're the wrong colour, a$$hole!". I could choose to go on to prove them wrong and try to become the most ace 'white' rapper since Eminem. Or I could try slaying dragons instead somewhere in Ireland. Slaying the dragon is a little easier and just as fulfilling.

I guess it comes down to individual choice too.

That's the dope yo.

At the end of the day, I'll respect him. I respect anyone who does their own thing against the odds.
But it doesn't mean I shouldn't make a post about it for you guys to generate your opinions on it

 

[roninriot]

Aki S. Ian,
I know it's a him because I do not feel my pen*s tingling from arousal!

 

[dir]

sheesh, maybe your pen is spoilt!

keep on fighting the good fight, Zermine! show those naysayers what 200kg of fat in a cute dress could do!

 

[wyldeboon]

ok ok...

how does he take a piss at public toilets?
use gents or ladies?


i go no probs with all tis but the toilet thinghy is always in my head

 

[dir]

that's what the handicapped toilet is for actually (well, one of the many reasons)
also, anyone with a penis should go to the gents

 

[Aki S. Ian]

hmm, so his a guy... aiyah... eh wait. wont all this assault on him scar him?

he must have had a very bad childhood experience.

i do wonder what his parents make of this situation

 

[Gr3yF0x]

Lollercoaster.

 

[soft]

I always hear people say musicians are those cannot study, cannot get a job and cannot make money. I get so angry when I hear these things.

Hey, but we can go around and talk bad about other people, can we?

NO!

roninriot, when you posted this topic, you already know that it would become flammable and cos much stress to the forum community. It is like the other blog you written that made headline in the newspaper.

There are only 2 reasons why I think you keep doing things like this.

1. You really don't have a clue.

2. You really need the attention.

Do not do things that you don't want others to do to you.
Do not say things that you don't want others to say about you.

For fellow SOFTies, how would you feel if you are singled out and made fun of? This is bullying. We don't want to be on the receiving end but neither should we be bullying others.

Do something good today. Do something good tomorrow. Do everything good, everyday!