i think it's fair to talk about topics other than music on SOFT, because we're all still musicians. musicians don't ALWAYS have to talk about music, and this forum seems like a place where musicians and people interested in music can gather to discuss both music as well as general topics of interest.
so if, for example, i think there's an awesome chicken rice place and wanted to share it with you guys, perhaps i'd start a thread on chicken rice and we could all have a nice discussion about chicken rice and maybe even organize a trip there so we can socialize with other musicians and network with the music community.
however, i think it's silly to post threads which can simply be answered using a tiny bit of initiative and minimal intelligence. for example, questions like "where is tampines" or "how can i get to sengkang from chinatown" only require a little bit of effort and practically no intelligence. you can google it, you can use resources like StreetDirectory.com, and getting an answer from online resources will probably take less time than waiting for an answer on the forum. so threads like that are stupid, and waste everyones' time and James' bandwidth. AND they annoy everyone with common sense, simply because anyone with any sense or intelligence wouldn't go to a forum just to waste everyone's time with asking questions that they can easily find the answers to.
so if you have a question which requires minimal effort on your part to find the answer to, please don't be lazy about it. don't clog up the bandwidth wasting everyone's time with ridiculous questions. if you're on the forum, you have internet access. use the online resources to get answers. and, this should be the most obvious, but is generally the least practiced, use your brain.