I think we partly have ourselves to blame. Ask any young married couple out there whether they are going to have kids. The most likely reply would be either 2 maximum, or none at all. The trend of having absolutely no children is becoming more common. I don't know why and I cannot comprehend that logic but that's just me.
With the amount of stress that the government puts on us as humans, how not to think small? We are so busy (and stressed) with work that our sex lives are dropping. It's proven that stress can contribute to the possibility of conceiving.
And its only recently then they upped the baby bonus. ONLY RECENTLY. Sustaining children is expensive, but the government is not giving us incentives to have more children.
I remember a friend who was telling me her parents were so stressed, cause her brother (who is 4th in the family) did not qualify for Edusave and had to pay everything in full. Prior to 2004, only the 1st, 2nd and 3rd kids were eligible, and its only THIS YEAR that they opened it up to ALL students in primary and secondary school
I know a couple who has 5 kids. Shikes. Thankfully the system has changed already
But bring it back to my point on the stress life as well. A lot of working adults are stress out like crazy. Work has inevitably taken priority over family. If the government wants to really improve families, then they should do a few things:
1) Increase maternity leave/benefits
I think that 12 weeks after the baby is born is still relatively insufficient. They should seriously increase it so that mothers can have more time with their babies. Did you know that mothers who give birth to their third child are only entitled to half their monthly salary (per month passed)? So, if the benefits are not going to help them past 2 children, do we see why some females won't want to give brith to more than 2 kids? (esp those working ones, and more so, the high-flyers)
2) Introduce paternity leave
Fathers aren't entitled to paternity leave. Why can't they spend time with the children?!
3) Increase baby bonus
I've just checked a few sites, and although the baby bonus looks quite a nice sum per child, perhaps they can increase the amount as well, especially since the prices of everything is rising like crazy. Also noted, was that there was nothing said beyond the 5th child.
Hmm... better ask my friend how much they got for their 5th child.
The Govt. knows this full well, they've been bitching about the whole ageing population and our inability to (what's the word? I'll just use) replenish our population. So they see bringing in foreigners as a solution, or one part of a big solution because I am pretty sure foreigners alone won't help that much.
Alamak, the government doesn't recognise certain major flaws in some policies. It's always like that
And taking up our University places, although I really dread this, it isn't a particularly bad thing. That's just how life works. Since they are, in the eyes of the university, more 'valuable and qualified', they take the places in our stead. Happens in all kinds of places and organisations and I must say it isn't unfair, unless a university sets out to be a Singaporean-Only university.
If you notice, in the US and UK, there is a certain number of slots that are solely for the foreigners. US is small though, the universitys can only accept 5% of their students from foreign countries. Perhaps this has got to do with local demand and supply. Yet again, I don't study there.
I can't seem to get any figures about how many foreign students are studying here in our local unis, but I bet its at least a 2-digit figure. I'm not talking about those who studied in Singapore for a log time and naturally go to uni. I'm talking about those who study here just for the education.
Its ironic that Singapore try to retain people to stay in Singapore and not go overseas when most of us aren't even sure if we can pursue further education in Singapore. Admit it, there are better chances overseas. A lot of my friends go overseas, and become so used to it that they themselves admit that they do not want to come back to Singapore. They've their reasons