to Kash,
people find you rude and offensive for 2 reasons:
1. you have not proven to the community that you are worthy of our respect as a musician. If Steve Vai said what you said, we would listen, but you're not even visible, much less respected.
2. it's not what you say; it's how you say it. perhaps you only have the ballz to be so antagnoistic when you're hiding behind the monitor. if you ARE so antagonistic in your everyday life, you probably wonder in your sleep why you don't have any real friends.