CogitoAngMoh
New member
my $0.02
I've been to Actor's a handful of times and have jammed with the regular guys there. My experience each of those times has been fine and everyone has always treated me with respect. It seems like a good bunch of guys in there.
However, after reading both accounts of this unfortunate situation, I have to say I may have reacted the same way had I been approached like that, especially being touched, even in a harmless way. Some might view that as slightly harassing and probably definitely annoying, at the least. The fact is two people were buying drinks, and if the third guy didn't want to, frankly, that's his choice. What if he's a recovering alcoholic and doesn't drink?
Wayne, I can totally understand your point about the need to have people enjoying the facilities also support the business by buying things. But it's not a dues paying club, it's a bar. IMHO, the right approach would be to have it clearly posted that there is a one or two drink minimum for those patrons taking part in singing / jamming. That way the policy is clear when people come in and nobody has to get their backs up over something like this.
Just my two cents, but I can say I'll definitely go back to Actor's at some point.
I've been to Actor's a handful of times and have jammed with the regular guys there. My experience each of those times has been fine and everyone has always treated me with respect. It seems like a good bunch of guys in there.
However, after reading both accounts of this unfortunate situation, I have to say I may have reacted the same way had I been approached like that, especially being touched, even in a harmless way. Some might view that as slightly harassing and probably definitely annoying, at the least. The fact is two people were buying drinks, and if the third guy didn't want to, frankly, that's his choice. What if he's a recovering alcoholic and doesn't drink?
Wayne, I can totally understand your point about the need to have people enjoying the facilities also support the business by buying things. But it's not a dues paying club, it's a bar. IMHO, the right approach would be to have it clearly posted that there is a one or two drink minimum for those patrons taking part in singing / jamming. That way the policy is clear when people come in and nobody has to get their backs up over something like this.
Just my two cents, but I can say I'll definitely go back to Actor's at some point.