suggestion on jazz music?

To each his own lah.

But feeling intimidated is a very subjective emotion which may have little substance in reality? It's all relative isn't it..never absolute.
 
I thought I was being nice..on my best behaviour in fact.

But if anybody wants to rumble you know I won't walk away..so better keep the flies off my cheese !!

Just as we need to learn control when playing the drums, I have also learned to control my disdain and impatience for fools and retards. That's why I do not intend lighting any fires in this temperature sensitive environment. :-)
 
Bro Blofled

From your post, knowing you all these years (Yes indeed, you are indeed exercising control over your normal self)….This I agree and I appreciate it very much truly.

PS: - But bro, it’s really rude out here to use words such as “Fools” & “Retards” as it could lead to a wrong perception being made that this sentence is actually directed at some Drummers out here and you know this is very Sensitive and could stir up something (That's the last thing I want here)....

To everyone: -

Dear all: - Please be nice to everyone ok – help your poor Brother me – and make life easier here for everyone at Soft (especially me) ….Thank You !

Regards

Eric

Peace.eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
 
Let's not get too thin skinned and overly sensitive.

Fools and retards exist in the real world but nowhere in my statement was there any implication that it was directed at anyone here. Let's not imagine a problem that has not arisen.

Let's hope there are no potential fools and retards here to fuel unnecessary conflicts. But if there are any, please step forward and identify yourselves so we can exorcise you.

Otherwise let's get back to the serious business of playing drumms ah !!




Bro Blofled

From your post, knowing you all these years (Yes indeed, you are indeed exercising control over your normal self)….This I agree and I appreciate it very much truly.

PS: - But bro, it’s really rude out here to use words such as “Fools” & “Retards” as it could lead to a wrong perception being made that this sentence is actually directed at some Drummers out here and you know this is very Sensitive and could stir up something (That's the last thing I want here)....

To everyone: -

Dear all: - Please be nice to everyone ok – help your poor Brother me – and make life easier here for everyone at Soft (especially me) ….Thank You !

Regards

Eric

Peace.eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
 
Let's not get too thin skinned and overly sensitive.


I have also learned to control my disdain and impatience for fools and retards. That's why I do not intend lighting any fires in this temperature sensitive environment


Bro – you knew, certain things or words are deem to be sensitive here (as your above quote) – so just be very careful with words out here….different people will interpret your quote differently and thus – try to avoid using words/sentence like these - - -

To me – as a Moderator – Prevention is better than a Cure. Hope you understand.

Thank You
 
Here we go again !!

Can you provide a lists of words and in what context that may be deemed sensitive here ? Or are we just being a little bit ridiculous.

In the first place, if there are no fools or retards in this forum, then there is no cause for sensitivities. And if there are - would they be smart enough to notice ? There is nothing to prevent and nothing that needs curing...be cool brudder.

C'mon, Eric....you should know better that too much repression is bad for creative expression. Surely there is more maturity here than that?


Bro – you knew, certain things or words are deem to be sensitive here (as your above quote) – so just be very careful with words out here….different people will interpret your quote differently and thus – try to avoid using words/sentence like these - - -

To me – as a Moderator – Prevention is better than a Cure. Hope you understand.

Thank You
 
Bruce...I never got your email...which one did you use my gmail or starhub addy? All others do not reach me now.

Thanks for your kind remarks on the Jams...I am glad you did not feel "intimidated" (a negative sentiment I must admit) like some others. But then again you knew your stuff.

The jams are a bit of an institution now, officially sanctioned and supported by the organisation that controls the buliding and facilities. I keep it going by hook or crook ! I will be in LA and NY (sorry Chicago no time) over the next 3 weeks..hope to catch some of the live jazz esp in NY.

You keep the music swinging and grooving OK !



Frank, I wrote you an email a long time ago. Did you ever get it? I'm doing fine here... in a Jazz trio now doing gigs as we get them and learning from another one of Chicago's finest, Ernie Adams. Increasing my musical circle of acquaintences too. Your jam sessions are an invaluable resource for anyone serious about improving their playing. Hope you keep it going as long as you can. Everyone needs to attend those!

-B
 
Yah lor. You really should have more freedom of expression in here, bugger what the fragile egos and thin-skinned have to squeal about.

After all this is an Exchange ..no?

Info and stats we can get from the Net anytime. Honest opinions and exchanges are even more valuable. Let's take off the glossy veneer that hides the real Us and expose our raw soul a little bit more lah. Why put on an act that is not quite real?

And who says we must always fight and quarrel when we disagree? The language may be tough at times but we can still be civil. That's maturity for you.

Peace !!


Gosh...I knew you were going to say that, Hahahaha Frank ..... but what to do Bro, that's the Trade-Off.

Cheers & Be Merry.
 
okie tell u wat frank, lets take off the veneer like u said. i've always found flaming rather uncalled for. if u come for the next exchange i will, and i'd buy u a coffee and we can talk? no one is hiding at all, i'm mark by the way we met a couple of months ago at the exchange. i was the young fella with the mohawk in the red tee shirt.
 
Hey Mark, make sure you play some thinking metal too!! And don't forget to be academic about it!! But then again....metal playing has been shared in an exchange already so you might be wasting your time a little...or Alfe, you can give a talk on Punk grooves perhaps?? D-Groove etc....which are all seriously physically challenging stuff that requires loads of mental discipline....
 
Hi Mark,

Who is flaming who? I haven't tried to flame anyone here but as I have said, the flash point here is very low...quite unhealthy for a forum where free exchange is supposed to be encouraged.

I do not believe in getting personal but I will call a spade a spade, and I will voice my opinions even if these may be controversial. And I will defend to the death your right to disagree with me...and then share a coffee and joke about it.

I don't know about you, but I learn more about people and things by having an earnest argument, than by mutual back slapping. All this done in a friendly and amiable manner of course. And yes yes...I am on for that coffee next time we bump.

And of course I remember you...that Mohawk looks good on you but it would be ridiculous on me. That's diversity for you.



okie tell u wat frank, lets take off the veneer like u said. i've always found flaming rather uncalled for. if u come for the next exchange i will, and i'd buy u a coffee and we can talk? no one is hiding at all, i'm mark by the way we met a couple of months ago at the exchange. i was the young fella with the mohawk in the red tee shirt.
 
Well Bruce, that email never reached me. It's sunblaze@starhub.net.sg just to recap.

Next time you pass thru, I can get you in with some better players that I jam with in private. Maybe even get you to sub a gig or two if you are here long enough.

Lots of playing opportunities now ...esp with the 2 casinoes coming on stream in the next yearor so.
 
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