You could go with:
1. Remo Ambassadors top and bottom (with moongel, if needed) for more versatility.
2. Remo Emperor batter, Diplomat resonant.
3. Evans Power Centre Reverse Dot batter, Genera Glass or Hazy 300 resonant.
I would recommend the new Evans GPlus heads, but you can't get them locally. Just installed one on my Supra.
Also, clear heads tends to be a bit brighter than coated which helps with cutting through. Bear in mind that that steel snares are brighter and already have that sharp attack.
I would actually (in your shoes) go for the Ambassador pairing and play around with the amount of moongel/tape I would require to get my sound.
Personally I prefer my drums to sound open so I go for single-ply skins. Remember that your Stagestar snare's a 13"x5" too, might not wanna muffle it that much.