heyho!
remember when you play by tab - actually take note of the note names and chord names you are playing and the structure of the songs (e.g modulation from relative major to minor etc).. don't just play it cos the number says 15 and you have no idea what you're playing.
trust me.. playing this way will kill you when you realise all you've been doing is playing blindly.
doing everything in moderation is best imho. your basic 1-2-3-4 dexterity and coordination exercises. music theory knowledge. and of course just playing the damn guitar!
and yes, write your own songs! that will surely keep your passion burning.
this way you will actually find yourself intrigued as to why certain chords tend to want to resolve to certain chords,why popular progressions generally sound that way, why certain notes really stand out against certain chords, how can you create melodic and harmonic variations in your songs, and so on. and then you'll begin your never ending journey of understanding music 8)
below are some useful sites as to songwriting guidelines,some more basic, some more complex. also some sites that are useful for music theory knowledge. well they are all useful in some way.
http://www.guitarknowledgenet.com/
http://chordmaps.com/
http://chrisjuergensen.com.hosting.domaindirect.com/composing music.htm
http://www.ibreathemusic.com (amazing forums and articles)
if you're interested to improve your hearing/relative pitch, head on down to
http://www.good-ear.com/servlet/EarTrainer
and, whenever you're feeling down or feel that you're lacking that so called "natural musical talent", head on down to this site.
http://www.aruffo.com/eartraining/copp.htm
amazing article.
sorry if i sound over enthusiastic. its just that i self taught myself with no one guiding me :lol: pretty much wasted alot of productive time playing senselessly. hope that will not happen to you.
regards