NoMiS
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just a few cents of my opinion. personally if there's such deal of installments for any purchase of any instrument, i think it would be best that both parties are either trusted friend or colleagues that they know. this way such a case will nv happen. secondly, if the buyer has no confidence in paying in full and don't really know the seller, don't suggest/accept installment plan if you can't live up to the expectations of the seller unless you are very certain that at a specific time and at a specific date that you can pay. if there was an urgent performance, you have so many friends that you can borrow a instrument from, i am sure at least a few of them are willing to help, cuz that's wat friends are for isnt it?
Mesergod(not going against you pls dont feel so!) you spoke about foreigners looking at our thread and laughed and said that this is the reason why local music scene wont grow? well, i think this is also another reason why.and that is Responsibility. everybody has their own family problems. you have not met someone worse than you. but no matter what, the responsibility in closing a deal has got to be there. yes, we all know that you will still pay. but what does the word responsibility means to you? to me, its executing what you agreed to do at that specific time or location that you agreed so.
why i brought this out is this, i agree with you that we all got to work together to bring this scene up. but i do not agree with you by not being responsible, if you have gone thru with it specifically i dont think such a thing would happen. we all learn from mistake. and you have made yours mesergod. but you are not condemned. we all learn. and you have apologised for it and i know in the future you prolly won't make the same mistakes again.
so lets just all learn from this! valuable lesson! no one is perfect people. no one. so show some love, forgive and start anew. if ever this problem arises, den you and i both know who to trust who not to. peace.
P.S: Again this is just my opinion, so if i have offended anyone, i apologize.
and to the moderators, if this post causes any stir, please take it down. i am just sharing my point of view hope its not too much. ok no more from me!
Mesergod(not going against you pls dont feel so!) you spoke about foreigners looking at our thread and laughed and said that this is the reason why local music scene wont grow? well, i think this is also another reason why.and that is Responsibility. everybody has their own family problems. you have not met someone worse than you. but no matter what, the responsibility in closing a deal has got to be there. yes, we all know that you will still pay. but what does the word responsibility means to you? to me, its executing what you agreed to do at that specific time or location that you agreed so.
why i brought this out is this, i agree with you that we all got to work together to bring this scene up. but i do not agree with you by not being responsible, if you have gone thru with it specifically i dont think such a thing would happen. we all learn from mistake. and you have made yours mesergod. but you are not condemned. we all learn. and you have apologised for it and i know in the future you prolly won't make the same mistakes again.
so lets just all learn from this! valuable lesson! no one is perfect people. no one. so show some love, forgive and start anew. if ever this problem arises, den you and i both know who to trust who not to. peace.
P.S: Again this is just my opinion, so if i have offended anyone, i apologize.
and to the moderators, if this post causes any stir, please take it down. i am just sharing my point of view hope its not too much. ok no more from me!
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