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hey mates,im not sure if this is the right place for me to ask this question..

but have any of u had ur partner go through an abortion before?
im in such a critical position now, that i have a lot of things to think about..
i think my girlfriend is pregnant....
im not sure what are the processes of going through an abortion.i wanna know, how do u get ur partner to prepare for it,mentally and physically..
i have thought about it, there is no way we're keeping this baby if the pregnancy is confirmed..we're not even financially prepared! god!

and what are the cost for it?
im sure some of u may major in this field, so i would appreciate if u could share ur thoughts in it...
 
From the sounds of it, seems like u're the one who really wants the abortion. Nothing on what your gf thinks.
Don't be selfish - your wishes do not override hers.
Go n consult her.

But if you choose to live with the consequence of your own actions, you will come out of it a much better person, trust me.
 
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How old are the two of you?

Don't start from the perspective of " how do u get ur partner to prepare for it", but sit down and have a good talk with her about it instead.

If you feel you're not prepared to be a father or to commit to her long-term, tell her so. But since you haven't even confirmed her pregnancy, don't jump the gun and start thinking about abortion, or else you'll find yourself losing your girlfriend. Seriously.

Apart from that, you're a real douche anyway for sticking it unprotected. At least slap a rubber on before getting it on.
 
1- get the pregnancy test kit from guardian pahrmacy, about $20 and it comes in a pack of two so you can double confirm.

2-get your g/f to pee on the kit, if the blueline appears clearly...really clear and not blur then congrats.

3-once you've done that both of you will have to sit down and have a long talk, if pregnant.

4-if both the test kits are negative, blank, no blue band...then get another and test again.

5-the rest is ...you have to decide.

abortion is a hard decision but better to get it done as early as possible.
if you delay and the foetus reaches 3 to 4 months it will be too late and to abort, your g/f will have to induced into labour and give birth to the foetus and it will be left to die.

early is the best...
 
Hey bro,

My advice to u is that u sat down with ur gf and talk abt this carefully and deeply before coming to any decision.This is a matter of life and death seriously.I'm saying this coz i worked as a mortician(mortuary) and I always handled abortion cases and tell u honestly it's a pity to witness an innocent life being taken away just like that everyday.we have to answer to our own actions as a man.Still,u make the call mate.This is purely an advice to u.Hope u r not offended.I wish both of u could make the best possible decision about this matter.As for the procedure,if the pregnancy is confirmed and u wanna abort it,u have to go thru a few hurdles on the way.u gotta have an appointment with a counselor and stuff before everything is done.As for the price,it may cost u more if u go to a private clinic,hospital is cheaper below 1k.Think wisely mate.
 
You know... After having sex and now your girlfriend is pregnant, you have to be responsible for it.

Telling your girlfriend to go for an abortion is, in my opinion, pretty irresponsible.

Have a talk with your girlfriend. Your girlfriend sounds as if she is not for abortion, am I right?

Talk to her and ask for her opinions. Weigh all your options. An abortion can be traumatic for your girlfriend. So, you have to make the right decisions.

And please, please... Tell me you aren't underage!
 
omg look a cat

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whatever is the cat about?
i think alot of softies have already touched on the abortion issues.
in addition, if she, or both of you, are minors below legal age of 18, then the consequences will not be just an abortion.
While some, in order to escape such legal consequences resorts to unsafe abortion alternatives or unlicenced clinics, please do consider the safety, health and well-being of your gf as well. and if there's any legal responsibility that you may need to face, face it like a man.
 
actually i believe both of u come to a decision whether u wanna keep the child..if realli there is...
and after u come to an conclusion..
seek advice from both side parents...
yeah....
hopefully u will think carefully..
coz afterall its the matter of life and death of someone....
 
big decision. but I suggest against abortion because it can seriously affect someone's life or rather affect a new born life and the life of his/her mother.

abortion should only be last resort. do or plan everything else first.
 
You know what I find weird, that the thread starter has 1 post, and it's this. Last time I checked soft was a music forum.

anyway, yeah basically what everyone said is right, have a talk, and good luck.
 
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You know what I find weird, that the thread starter has 1 post, and it's this. Last time I checked soft was a music forum.

anyway, yeah basically what everyone said is right, have a talk, and good luck.
Click to expand...

but this is a general talk forum...for specific music stuff go to the relevant groups..
 
its a big decision... not an easy one to make so I think you are better off seeking advice/help from a counsellor or family member, people that you know and trust...asking on a forum like this, i think you will end up with 100+1 opinions. it will only confuse you more. just my 2cts.
 
Don't do it... It is wrong.

Your financial health is a poor excuse for an abortion.
This is Singapore, not Somalia. You will live with the
regret that you CHOSE to end a human life.
 
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