Hi,
i might be off topic but i think this is an important consideration.
u might want to give a brief descrip about the environment u will be placing the kit in.
From ur previous posts, my guess is its gonna be in a room in your house?
How big is it, how many storeys, etc. Will neighbours make noise? Acoustics of your room important too. How can the 3k kit sound good if for example u have to put it in a corner next to concrete walls?
One SOFTie Reuben here has experiences with neighbours complaining even though he has spend quite a bit soundproofing his room.
I have built a platform in my room, and am on my way to treating the walls with acoustic foam. Hopefully the sound improves then. Why not give some thought about your environment before u splurge most of your budget on the drums itself. My S.S. sounds great to me as far as i am concerned, and the sound has improved a great deal ever since i have moved them from my living room(no air con, no sound treatment, no stage) to my renovated bedroom.
If i had 3k and all the information i have right now, i would go for a decent enough TAMA or MAPEX-mid range(1.8k), apply all the sound treatment techniques when creating my practice environment(up to 1k-depends), get them TURKEY CYMBALS($800 can get a excellent 3-4 piece setup), and go find a good teacher.
(Tama for hardware, Mapex for quality, Turkish for value, Teacher to get things right early.)
Lastly, a 3k kit doesnt promise to sound good if u cant tune it nicely.
just my $0.02.
All bros welcome to educate me in any areas u think i dont make sense =D