SOFT's 10 year anniversary?

I think we should all get into the hot tub together, turn on the heat, and get all wet and play Hotel California while drunk.

Then we can whip on our sexy bikinis and swimsuits and toss ourselves into the pool where we will hit it up with a massive jam of Free Bird while swimming, drumkit will be at the bottom of the pool so we will require a very strong drummer able to go against the water pressure.

Or a BBQ will do
 
Ronin:i would love to see that happen!

hmm, BBQ? but where? its hard to plan. we need somone to actually organise this thing
 
I was thinking of just growing out our pub*c hairs and letting them substitute as 'swimming trunks'. So you guys wear black, I'll 'wear' white :)
 
Since this is Soft, we shouldn't be surprised to see multi-coloured.

My only Q is who is going to invite Cecillia Cheung???
 
I was thinking of just growing out our pub*c hairs and letting them substitute as 'swimming trunks'. So you guys wear black, I'll 'wear' white :)

Since this is Soft, we shouldn't be surprised to see multi-coloured.

My only Q is who is going to invite Cecillia Cheung???


Is this necessary on SOFT? I would have deleted the above post away but I like to hear from you guys (roninriot+ RoRK).
 
RoRK, are you trying to say something? It would be easier if you just type it out instead of linking a Youtube song here.
 
I'm saying something. And it is actually a lot easier to link to this particular MUSIC VIDEO than to type out a few thousand words.

Yup! It'll take that many words to say what this one video+song says that I'd like to say.

Since, you wrote your post, for all, my reply, is to everyonw who has an interest.

One can be on the pedestal, Mick Jagger, One or all of the Hells Angels, a prentender to the lyrics, the fans at the back and those at the front, those that are 'lost' or those just trying to enjoy the music - lots for everyone.

Everyone takes what they can and what they want from it. Like all things, there is good and bad. We take what we want, when we can. Then we leave. And sometimes we return.

There is always something for everyoine. Take it. Leave with or wittout it. If you take the good things, you may actually have something positive. If you take the bad things, then you chose unwisely.

You asked for a response. I responded. Everyone has a choice. Let all choose wisely.
 
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James,
What's up with you lately?
Are the papers getting to you?
I, and as well as a lot of loyal SOFT supporters for YEARS are starting to think that you're getting way too ana| about the small stuff. It wasn't anything but some light hearted comments between a genuine discussion, but the way you talk down to your loyalists is incredulous. I think it's all getting to your head a little bit.

Why don't you just put down your little rules for your little forum and spell it out what we can or cannot say so we can be your obedient minions? It'd be much easier than having us react to your conditional whim and fancies. Seems like some things can pass, and some can't, but they are hardly ever consistent.

Has SOFT been reduced to a humourless cesspit of banal banter?

I started this post in hopes that we could put together something nice for SOFT and you, for all your hard work, in celebration for this little place we call home. But now that I see you're turning into a little bit of a self-righteous and condescending snob. Seriously, this wasn't even said in a negative tone. I was simply making fun of myself for being an albino and having white pub|c hair instead of black, it's called 'not taking yourself too seriously'. You might want to check up what that means.

But the topic wasn't steering in the wrong direction. I started it so we could band together to throw a party in SOFT's honour. Obviously, just liek any conversation and most topics here, we will sidetrack a little to talk about random stuff, but the heart of the topic was still there.

There is a fine line between authority and just being an uptight a$$. I owe no amount of niceness to you, not after you have been condescending. Not after I explained myself politely (as many saw too) to you AFTER you insulted me personally. I also privately messaged you about it so as to not drag things out here but obviously I am not worthy of a proper response from you.

I know there will be a lot of people who will react to this post angrily or whatever, for telling you off like this. But seriously, look at the whole thing. This wasn't even a trace of anti-harmony at all and there have been worse things said here, and not from either one of us too. But you had to wreck it with your sensitivity.

Ban my account, close this post, do whatever the hell you want. I'm so over SOFT. I cannot believe that between RoRk and me, we have more than a thousand posts. And for what? For you to nitpick at things that aren't even there.

I cannot believe I actually wanted to help you organize a 10 year celebration for this redundant piece of cyber space.

I tell you what 'isn't necessary', my IT technician man. I already have a daddy on home. I don't need one on a forum as well.

Oh hey, the men in white are knocking at your door. Oh wait, it's just a salesman.

Sheesh. Whatever. You wanted an explanation, this is it. I'm sorry if it doesn't carry your ego enough.

Yours,
Levan
 
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hahaha yes. sometimes we should all chill.

it's okay to be childish and juvenile once in a while, no reason to be so tense!
 
roninriot, i just ask why you need to post that? Why get so work up? Haiz..

I am more than happy when you suggested the 10 year celebration. I think it is a great idea.

Maybe it is your style of talking but do try to cut down on those saucy remarks.
 
Why don't you PM me about it instead? Was it 'really necessary' to tell us you were tempted to remove it but you 'needed to hear from us' first? You could have easily PM either RoRk or me to tell us to change it if you felt it was too 'saucy', or just edited it on your own. And here you are complaining about keeping a topic on track? Funny how you can respond like that after you're the one who kicked up the fuss over a few random comments about nothing in the first place? Pfftt. Get real daddy. Here --> some milk and cookies for you.
 
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I thought highlighting it in the forum would be more open? But you are right, I should not OT. Maybe we PM.
 
ok i am glad u guys are gonna sought it out among yourselves hope everything is ok.
NOW back to the topic. is this really happening? and when is it scheduled for? can someone volunteer to take charge now?
 
nice to see you guys sort this out! everyone wins!

okay let's focus on the outing! tentative date? a weekend?
 
Since a BBQ at east coast was done before, how about a BBQ at someone's place instead? That way, people can really swim if they wanted to, chill out without having sand up their pants, etc -- provided the security guards allow it. And maybe also a weekend so more people can go. Of course, the host will have to know who's coming etc so that they can inform the guards before hand. I don't know, just a suggestion.

Which month / day was SOFT officially registered?
 
pardon me for saying this, but James, recently you've been quite strict with the forum members. I dont know whats happening on your side but I've seen you warning other softies on miscellaneous stuff, and the way you put it, to be honest, wasn't very nice at all. i hope you can sort things out and get things back to the way they were before, where soft is a relax & chill music forum for musicians and not like how it is today.

cheers,
minghan
 
BBQ at someone's place? then the place needs to be huge to occupy so many softies :D

what about places like east coast park, pasir ris park?
 
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