Shin Min Papers Wrote An Article Complain About me Drumming
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RudimentalDrummer
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Let’s put ourselves into our Neighbours shoes for now. Drumming can be at times be quite irritating (as it is loud and really depends on what we are practicing-this is true) some can take it some cannot – as their Threshold level are all at different level.
Now these are the Parties Involve now:-
(1) Started with me Drumming
(2) The Complaining Neighbour
(3) The Police then
(4) The HDB
(5) The CC People – where there will be a MP
(6) The Media
From (3) The Police (4) HDB (5) CC People to (6) The Media - - - - - All these parties that got involve – in actual facts aims for one thing in common and that’s - - The Problem can be resolve through Mutual Understanding and Compromising each other on their part.
The entire Problem from beginning to now - - is The Drummer (me of course) and (The Complaining Neighbour) - - -- This is the root of the problem which can only be resolve through – Compromisation.
Therefore for me the best course of action is - - - Resolve this among ourself (if possible)and I will try my best here to the best as I could to talk to the Neighbour – as a gesture of respect and strike a best solution among us – where I could carry on my Drumming Hobby and not disturbing them in all the time. If this can be achieved then – The problem is resolve right away, Isn’t this the Best Solution and it depicts Resonableness and Respect among one another.
Why go through all these (the people from 2 to 6) were ultimately involve because of above core reasons.
To me Compromising is the Key if achievable (in this case quite difficult but yet I must try my best) and I did through my course of actions, rather than - - - - - Fighting for “Let’s Talk About The Law”
Yes the Law as an example here according to the Police (I can drum till 10pm) after that don’t cause I might be disturbing the entire neighbourhood) for instance does not means that I will if I need to – Practice my drumming till 10pm as I need to spare a though for others living in the same vicinity as me…..This call compromising on my part – rather than quoting The Law (I can drum till 10pm - - - - which I used to think or feel this way but I’m wrong and I learn on my part as we all learn throughout our life journey – that I have to spare a though for others too). By Compromising in a way yes Ego is somehow forgo on my part. But what is Ego anyway?
As a Moderator of Soft, I’ve indeed learn as time pass (how to resolve a conflict as best as I could). As a Committee of DXS, a Drummer and as a Person we try to be Socially Responsible, if issues like these crops up. Try resolving problems in the best means and this is what I am sharing with all of you on how I approach this now. I am not saying everyone here must and will take this route that I took (if it happens – touch-wood I hope it never will), but - - - This is how I am going to handle this now.
These kind of issues is best to be resolve directly with the complaining neighbour.
Now these are the Parties Involve now:-
(1) Started with me Drumming
(2) The Complaining Neighbour
(3) The Police then
(4) The HDB
(5) The CC People – where there will be a MP
(6) The Media
From (3) The Police (4) HDB (5) CC People to (6) The Media - - - - - All these parties that got involve – in actual facts aims for one thing in common and that’s - - The Problem can be resolve through Mutual Understanding and Compromising each other on their part.
The entire Problem from beginning to now - - is The Drummer (me of course) and (The Complaining Neighbour) - - -- This is the root of the problem which can only be resolve through – Compromisation.
Therefore for me the best course of action is - - - Resolve this among ourself (if possible)and I will try my best here to the best as I could to talk to the Neighbour – as a gesture of respect and strike a best solution among us – where I could carry on my Drumming Hobby and not disturbing them in all the time. If this can be achieved then – The problem is resolve right away, Isn’t this the Best Solution and it depicts Resonableness and Respect among one another.
Why go through all these (the people from 2 to 6) were ultimately involve because of above core reasons.
To me Compromising is the Key if achievable (in this case quite difficult but yet I must try my best) and I did through my course of actions, rather than - - - - - Fighting for “Let’s Talk About The Law”
Yes the Law as an example here according to the Police (I can drum till 10pm) after that don’t cause I might be disturbing the entire neighbourhood) for instance does not means that I will if I need to – Practice my drumming till 10pm as I need to spare a though for others living in the same vicinity as me…..This call compromising on my part – rather than quoting The Law (I can drum till 10pm - - - - which I used to think or feel this way but I’m wrong and I learn on my part as we all learn throughout our life journey – that I have to spare a though for others too). By Compromising in a way yes Ego is somehow forgo on my part. But what is Ego anyway?
As a Moderator of Soft, I’ve indeed learn as time pass (how to resolve a conflict as best as I could). As a Committee of DXS, a Drummer and as a Person we try to be Socially Responsible, if issues like these crops up. Try resolving problems in the best means and this is what I am sharing with all of you on how I approach this now. I am not saying everyone here must and will take this route that I took (if it happens – touch-wood I hope it never will), but - - - This is how I am going to handle this now.
These kind of issues is best to be resolve directly with the complaining neighbour.
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RudimentalDrummer
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Bro THOA, I dont know who he or She is till now definetely not downstairs as it's a Void-Deck, and how can I knock on everyones door asking "Excuse me Sir/Madam - are you the family that complain against me. The 1st thing they thing might be what does he wants - and for doing this I might have cause a further misunderstanding that I am a nasty guy if they do not even allow me to finished my sentence as in No I'm trying to strike a Compromise here - even if they allow me to finished thhis sentence - they might think what if he lie so they will say "No I didn't complain maybe someone else".........This could have make matter worst for all I know.
The communication that indeed had to be chanelled through only a Third party in this case (either HDB or The Press) because only they knows - Who launch the complain, but ethically or proffesionally wise - They are not allow to disclose the Complainer to me unless - - The complainer agreed in this case.
That's why, I try so hard to wanna speak to the Complainer through these 2 sources.
RudimentalDrummer
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Seriously, I am sure - most likely I wont be able to drum anymore at home (100% sure) since the press had put this up.
And I might now have to - go to the CC to Practice my drumming from now onwards as my Band is already the House-Band of the CC and we play there every Friday.
anyway...ok the complainer wins in this case...it's ok for me - not the end of the World (though how I wish I could still drum at home), but I can still drum at the CC which is just a Walking Distance from my home to practice twice a week - I will talk to them again.
For whatever reason - - - - there are of course, but no choice - for the good and publicity that is not to be blown too big - Just look out for the latest news and you will know why I can't drum
I already knew as - I was told....too bad.
I will lock this thread now - - - for a good cause...trust me for all.
And I might now have to - go to the CC to Practice my drumming from now onwards as my Band is already the House-Band of the CC and we play there every Friday.
anyway...ok the complainer wins in this case...it's ok for me - not the end of the World (though how I wish I could still drum at home), but I can still drum at the CC which is just a Walking Distance from my home to practice twice a week - I will talk to them again.
For whatever reason - - - - there are of course, but no choice - for the good and publicity that is not to be blown too big - Just look out for the latest news and you will know why I can't drum
I already knew as - I was told....too bad.
I will lock this thread now - - - for a good cause...trust me for all.
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