No hard feelings. Purely pointing out the main point of stuffing kit with tontine as it seemed to have strayed. Are you the nick's church drummer? I think I remember.
The point of discussion is to be able to practice on an acoustic kit and yet not piss off your neighbours. Nothing to do with sound quality. You said it yourself, nothing beats playing on an acoustic kit, so why spend the extra money on an e-kit that is secondary, "feel" wise?
And about practicing on pillows and practice pads....it is really for situations where playing on a drum kit is not possible. If its possible, the drum kit is where you should be doing most of your practice. Many students who spend 0 hours a week on an acoustic kit but spend hours on the pads and pillows have problems when they come to the drum set. It is purely an observation I have made. I have students who faced these problems only to solve it after finally purchasing just a snare drum and spending just minutes a day on it vs the hours they used to put in on pads & pillows. Other things like playing accent & ghost-note studies proved to be a huge problem too. This is also true on e-drums. The velocity layers now span across about 120 layers....but that is still very different from the dynamics you can get from a snare drum. You may think that you have referenced it well but most of the time its pretty surprising when you get on a snare after days on an e-kit.
Also, most beginners have minimal time to practice. So, if the practice is made as effortless as possible, the better! Imagine having to always put a significant amount of your focus on trying to reference your practice to an acoustic kit...that's a real waste of your brain juice. Every little bit of your focus should be maximized on dealing with the days practice, especially when you have limited time.
Bottom line is....if you want to be a all around drummer, then practice right. If you want to be an e-kit drummer, then by all means, buy an e-kit.
Finally, this is a real-life problem which MANY have faced.....and no matter how much we want to believe that e-kits might be a solution or try our best to convince ourselves that it is true...it is not. Real people are complaining and suffering the results of e-kit playing and real people are gaining good results from tontine stuffed acoustic kits....