heh, music, is our own expression. As much as we can take influence from anywhere, perhaps deep down, we have to see what is that self expression we are looking for, in music.
if we cant find peace within ourself, knowing what sorta way i wanna express myself thru my music, then perhaps it wont withstand whatever thats gonna be thrown at us. Especially when we exposed ourself, thru the music, via the forum, out to the people who bother to listen.
Good or bad, right or wrong, doesnt matter, whats important, is to address the "self" in us, thru the way we wanna express our music. Who, are we, who, am i, in the music that iam doing. It can be pop music, core style, folk, bluegrass or brewtal metale what so ever. The thing which made it different, is how much in the music, contain this "i", "me", "self"
Of course, if being happy doing things that sounds like others, its cool as well, as long as we, are happy and really knowing what we wanna(to be happy doing what iam doing), then perhaps the words of others, good or bad, while it matters, should not affect us so deep that all sort of negative emotions surface. Heh, if doing music brings joy, then why can we feel negative when people throw things at us?
of course, along the way, it doesnt hurt to hear alternative views thats insulting as well. Afterall, induglence is not a good thing, nor having too much pride that we cant see ourself.
talk kok or really talk kok, the above, we, can decide