Find good friends?
Sometimes being too good with ur friend can be bad thing too.
My drummer friend and i have known each other for abt... 10 yrs at least? When i picked up the guitar, he decided to go for the drums and together with my bro and a bassist who lived nearby, we formed a band.
Initially it was really fun, cos we are all new and just had fun jamming ard and messing up songs. The problem arised when we decided to try for gigs and stuff.
My drummer is not good. I'd rate him bad in fact. Y? Cos he can't keep a constant tempo, he can't come in at the right time, he doesn't WANT to count, can't do fills, can't play slow songs blah.. i could go on for days.
As his buddy i advised him to improve on his flaws. Being his buddy, i guess i got alittle too frank, but it was for the good of the band. However, he just shrugged it off and say he'll try to practise.
He's quite heck-care, thinks he can get by, but as we all know with trippy drums the music just wun flow as naturally. All along i was deciding to drop him from the band, but being my buddy, i just can't do it. So instead i decided to leave and do my own music.
Right now, he's getting hyped up abt music and drumming again, and wants to reform the band. And im like kinda being dragged into it, tho im really skeptical now. After a recent jam, the same story happened, and i left the jam feeling abit waste of my time.
Moral of the story: U risk ur friendship when u become too close with the one u play with. Sometimes it's better to keep a little distance to retain the "professionalism".
The killer phrase: "Come on la, we are brudders what, why dun wanna play with us?"