Picking up the pieces

[DoubleBlade]

Post Break-Up Syndrome

Wonder how you guys get over this sickness after a heartbreak....

This "sickness" strikes me whenever I'm NOT in the company of my friends and the feeling sucks especially when it's starting to re-surface once again....

Well I hope no one would dismiss this thread as junk....

 

[wangdexian]

Oh well, looks like I've got company...

I don't really know man, obsess yourself with music... I guess..

 

[DoubleBlade]

it only works when my butt is on my piano bench

if my butt is off the bench , then it comes back again :lol:

 

[wangdexian]

MSN Dating... :lol:

 

[dric]

Oh well, looks like I've got company...

yea u got that right. i just keep playing my guitar. thats the only thing that works.

 

[serialninja]

hang out with friends, hang out with family, meet tons of new, hot girls and charm them with witty banter, humor, and boyish good looks.

also, write songs and focus on music.

personally, in addition to that stuff, i also listen to soft jazz at night when i'm by myself. i hear ya, it gets lonely late at night. try Rod Stewart's The Great American Songbooks 1 and 2, and Norah Jones works for me too.

hang in there buddy!

 

[DoubleBlade]

it happened more than a month ago...so yeah...the memories are coming back slowly once again....

i suddenly had this feeling and then what made me even more shitty was when i saw her frenster account and found out that she deleted all my testimonials i wrote for her in the past....

i'm in the midst of composing a solo dedicated to her....

 

[Mobius]

Try ur best to keep urself occupied.... An unocupied mind wonders
....make sure u are damn tired at night so that u will fall asleep once u hit the pillow... so that u wont have any time to think about those sad things when u are trying to fall asleep... Sleeping is also a good way to "escape" from it all...

 

[serialninja]

it happened more than a month ago...so yeah...the memories are coming back slowly once again....

haha. it's been...hm.....10 months since my breakup and sometimes i still feel a little bitter. hahaha. but honestly, it gets better with time. my ex deleted her friendster testimonials that she left for me when we were dating. that was kinda surprising, but whatever. (sh)it happens. take it in your stride and be strong.

 

[DoubleBlade]

Basically this is what I usually do to keep myself occupied....

Monday to Friday - School
Saturday - Pool with my buddies at Parkway Parade
Sunday - Church and Jamming with my new found band

But when I'm at home , it's an entirely different story

 

[endlessrain77]

Hi DoubleBlade, if u can lay ur hands on the new Coldplay album take a listen to the song FIX YOU...here are the lyrics...

When you try your best
but you don't succeed
When you get what you want
but not what you need
When you feel so tired
but you can't sleep
Stuck in reverse

And the tears come streaming down your face
When you lose something you can't replace
When you love someone
but it goes to waste
Could it be worse?

Lights will guide you home
And ignite your bones
And I will try to fix you

And high up above or down below
When you're too in love to let it go
But if you never try you'll never know
Just what you're worth

Lights will guide you home
And ignite your bones
And I will try to fix you

---Musical Interlude---

Tears stream down on your face
When you lose something you cannot replace

Tears stream down on your face
And I...

Tears stream down on your face
I promise you, I will learn from my mistakes

Tears stream down on your face
And I...

Lights will guide you home
And ignite your bones
And I will try to fix you.

a year later...i dun think i ever heal completely...i try to seek solace in music...well sometimes work..sometimes not..but this time i got Chris Martin of Coldplay to thank for ...for this great song...it lift me up ...not sure how long it last..for for a moment...take care

 

[DoubleBlade]

hey thanks man , I'll definitely check this song out

 

[Newbie]

hey blade. dont worry lah. just play music. i tell u what, know more friends.

find peeps from here or something. then get them out for jams. can widen ur music knowledge and also ur circle of friends man.


whatever it is, if u need jamming kakis like for fun to kill time, AKU! ME! is that how u say me in malay? lol

 

[Cloudsky]

Your a christian right? Pray to God, it helps alot.


You can check out some uplifting worship songs like "My Redemeer Lives"

 

[gordonzz]

it happened more than a month ago....

you one month only.. i oredy 2 months.. going 3... now still zzz..

what to do?

listen to mxpx's gsf when i sad lor

 

[gordonzz]

No offence to the other song but i think this one more direct.. acompanied me through the bad days.. even till now :wink:

MxPx - GSF

You didn't have to be so mean to me
I guess now I see how it's gonna be
I'm joining GSF, I've made up my mind
Forget this thing called love, it's a waste of time
Girls ain't no good anymore, anyway!
Not for one second have I understood
Why they do what they do, why they say what they say
Always happens to my friends, it always happens to me
It's taken me 19 years to finally see
She said "Can we just be friends?
It's just not working out."
Another broken heart that I can do without
Girls ain't no good anymore, anyway!
Not for one second have I understood
Why they do what they do, why they say what they say

 

[PinkSpId3r]

well if possible..juz try to be optimistic and think on the bright side of life..listen to those music that will cheer you up and lift yourself up..think of the happy and wonderful things in life

artyman: cheers to those who have been hurt before

 

[DoubleBlade]

Neil Young's Rockin In The Free World makes me go HIGH

 

[serialninja]

you could check out my band's song Flights of Fancy at www.purevolume.com/westgrandboulevard

seriously. it's a sad song, but you might relate to it.

 

[wangdexian]

I could relate to so many songs right now.
I just ended a relationship after less than a day?!!?!?
Yea, stupid me. :?