pedialite: Metal+techno - you are close, you are describing Harsh EBM. Although EBM has been described variably as "Gothic trance" or "Synthpop". You will like Hocico and Front Line Assembly and Angelspit.
I'll wait for more replies, then I'll put out a big recommendation post
But happy there's a few people into this. I'm a big VNV Fan myself.
SherT- you got it!!! You are right on the money. Try some Assemblage 23, Haujobb, Razed in Black, Snog... maybe even a fair dose of Pride and Fall (new guys that are climbing the DAC chart right now)
if you want to get a earful of these tunes, do tune in to this web radio (its an american station):
DigitalGunfire.com - Industrial, EBM, Futurepop, Internet Radio - alot of the latest stuff too!
This is what me and X'ho were playing at Alternation all these months too. (We just shut the event, but I might open something in Butterfactory soon though ^^) I regularly get promos from Germany from Metropolis, NMMV etc because there's only 4 goth DJs in the whole country: X'ho, Myself, Netheraven, ADX. Be more than happy to exchange music if anyone wants to work with me to promote this kind of sound