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Yes bro absolutely right on the last sentence. Irresponsible drumming (ie. drumming at full volume, drumming in the wee hours of the day or late at night) isn't the right thing to do, and will land you in deep trouble.
Mediation is usually the right approach to retaining your privilege to drum, but in my case, mediation did not work out because the other party refused to abide by the terms. I offered to play only from 12pm - 4pm, or 6pm to 8pm. The chairman of the RC, a representative from HDB and town council, and the other party involved agreed to the terms, and I abided by it all. However, the other party involved continued to complain to both the police and the HDB. I received a call from HDB the other day, and the person in the line received a tongue-lashing from me where I pointed out the impotence and the lack of authority that the HDB personnel had in dealing with trouble-makers like them.
I labelled them trouble-makers because they were trying to create problems even though an agreement had been made.
For the first part of your sentence bro, I think that it's not entirely the TS's fault. For one thing, it's highly impossible to find an alternative practice venue because the drumset is in his/her house. After spending that kind of money on a drumset, I don't think it's fair to ask him to spend additional costs transporting and storing the drumset somewhere else. Electronic drums do not come cheap, especially if you're looking for quality drums. They run from $1000 for a low end yamaha model, to around $4000+ for a high end Roland v-drum. At the same time, sound-proofing is not possible in every apartment due to space constraints. The idea of sound-proofing in laymen's terms would be a room within a room, with sound-absorbant material in between. The cost too, can run up to a rather extravagent amount.
As for negotiotion and finding ways to rectify the situation, the TS can try to do so, but its eventually up the the other party to see if they want to abide by the agreement, or be a bastard as my neighbour did, and continue complaining.
Fight the system, but fight it in a smart way.