I've got better idea - come to our next month "Soft's Drummer June Drum Exchange on the 23rd" and you can ask the Bros around to show and share anything with you....very Informal, very beneficial and get to know the drummers in person here.....I'm sure you will enjoy it.....look out for the post on "4th Soft Drum Exchange-June 2007" Thread.
Good advice bros, you are all so correct here...especially the Grip part
Eric