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[Nicholasim]

thanks guys

 

[piano_ex]

heyya there .... =)

don't be paranoid ...

my honest opinion,

you actually in some kind of wrong and by your post, i don't think that u've noticed whats wrong... is it true to say that? From your stories, what i get is this ...

1. You ask him to go and skate ... it's not him asking u, but u're the one asking him
2. Even though it's just a few hours later ... but still ... you don't know maybe what he has planned .... maybe he has cancel his other plan just to skate with you ...
3. You told him that u can't skate cuz u end up going out with other friends .... which can also be translated as: u're not as important as this friends i'm going out with tomorrow .... our skating session can wait since it's not important

I'm just assuming what he feels ... regardless how he SHOULD react ...

He feel dissapointed, He is sad cuz maybe he feels that he is not of any importance to you after being friends for 6-7 years, and maybe he feels that his plan for tomorrow is ruined ..... hu knows, that he agrees to go skate only because u asked him ....

I'm not sure why, but there is possibilities that the way you convey the message to him is too straight or direct ..... so that he perceive it wrongly? i dunno

i think u should apologize regardless of hu is guilty ... just apologize and tell him what u feel and want to convey actually ..... anyway, u've been friends for 6-7 years ... and hope that both of u will be healed and in the end be friends again ... and even with greater bonds ..

that's what i think ..... hope u'll be friends again ... =)

 

[Nicholasim]

yeah .. you got the story right ..

im willing to apologise but is he willing to understand ?
cause he kinda has an attitude problem ..

and the thing is like .. i duno how to tell him

 

[JiveB]

sorry isn't very hard to say.

 

[wasp]

But Mr Elton John thinks sorry seems to be the hardest word.

 

[bam]

He doesn't want the sun to go down on him too.. But then its night time and then he asks "Can You Feel The Love Tonight?"



weird bugger...

 

[glissceule]

finished with my woman cause she couldn't help me with my mind

:roll:

 

[azlan]

don;t be so petty........ BOTH of you.....

 

[thailoverboy]

dearest Nicholasim
if u havent tried apologizing, what makes you think he is not willing to understand? why cant u just call him instead of waiting for him for come online?:roll:

yours truely,
aunt aggie

 

[AEnimic]

well,this kinda things happen..
you will make up with him very soon if he is really your close friend..I mean,I had my share too and it was worse than this...

but to really make things happen,place aside your ego and reflect what YOU did..and just apologise..

you did realise that you offended him by cursing at him..he does have the right to be abit pissed when you told him that you were not gonna meet him..everyone's gets pissed by that...put yourself in that situation...and imagine YOUR friend telling you to "F**K off" when HE is the one not going...you'd be pissed out of your head too right?

so yeah,accept it maturely and apologise..not worth fighting over something petty...

 

[RazrAsh]

ya know, this acrually sounds like some quarrel that COUPLES usually have. not a friends kinda thing. but Nicholasim, in this case, you really are somewhat in the wrong. and if u're not sure if he'll accept your apology, just apologise anyway. you'll feel better afterwards and then it'll calm him down too.

 

[piano_ex]

just apologize ..... gather courage and just call him up and say sorry ...

all the best!!! =)

 

[sLapshock]

you want to leave the 7 years friendship.. for that? think twice bro... say sorry doesnt hurt

 

[chamois]

Sounds really trivial. Patch up.
Both of you should treasure your friendship.
Maybe a cool off period and both of you will realise and laugh it off.
Everybody has got their own temper, both you should know each other's well.

There are worse conflicts in the real world.

 

[Nicholasim]

hey guys ... thanks for everything ... yeah .. i think i was wrong about changing my mind all of a sudden and was kinda egoistic ....

anyways ... i apologised to him "sry about yesterday .. im going to sleep gd night "

"nvm lah .. nights "

think he has cooled down already ... heh ... anyways thanks guys

 

[rengaw]

acquaintances are hard to find alr, don't say friends for 7 years! 8)

 

[tany]

how old are u? i thought these things happen in primary school only?

dude, good friends dont last for so long. there's bound to be quarrels, and even fights. but these things really strenghten ur friendship. it's the differences between you and him that make the friendship special, and if u want to treasure him, just call him at night, and give him a sincere apology. even though u may feel that it's not entirely ur fault, but just accept the blame. then later u can let him know your opinions. but dont start another argument.

 

[armour_juliet]

friends dont stay for ever
one they they'll leave you
or stab you?
haha like mine



RANDOM!

 

[Maswani]

Macham he is your lover

 

[hay88]

he's soo emo...he might be cutting his wrist with his deck right now...u're gonna be responsible for his death.