About a girl

[yuangchin]

i need an advice or opinion..

i like this girl, and her birthday is coming very soon..

i like to buy something for her..

i would like to meet her and give her a present.. and i want to make it a surprise..

my only concern is that if she would refuse to see me.. cause we are only friends..


so.. hws the way to ask her to meet..? ideass..?? :mrgreen:

 

[screamfest]

ask her out on a dinner.
ask the person at the restaurant to keep the present for you.
when dinner all done, kindly ask the waiter to bring it out to her as a suprise.
so when you fetch her out to dinner, she didn't know you were bringing her a present.

 

[rx7]

What is her name, share lah! and when is her birthday? What does she like and all? Does she have a boyfriend? You can just ask her out the day itself with the present and give it to her when you see her

 

[HarrisonYeo]

ask her close fren if she like u o not

 

[van_halen]

my only concern is that if she would refuse to see me.. cause we are only friends..

if she treats u as a friend, she'll accept ur present and see you.. if she don't wanna see you, go out with you or accept ur present, she don't even see you as a friend..

 

[Initiate]

Wow.

Here's my advice, if all fails, here's an effective Plan B : bring a piece of handkerchief and chloroform.

Never fails.

In all seriousness, are you suffering from some sort of brain hemorrhage or have cerebral palsy? You're asking for advice on the opposite sex on a message forum, this is really pathetic and makes you look like a sad, sad person.

 

[optisailor2002]

van_halen

i agree. if she treats you as a friend she should accept your invitation to go out maybe for a meal. but if she has already been dated by some other friends, thats another thing. but if she doesnt have a date and she refuses your invitation, to be honest, such girls do not really deserve your attention.

haha Initiate, everyone has his/her first time experiences. besides, this is a forum and everyone should help each other (though this might be the wrong section =/)

 

[wyldeboon]

tis ur 1st time ah?
dun be scared la... just go ahead.
many ways u can do it. put urself in her shoes n imagine wat is the best way.
girls are not tat bad at all,as long as u use the correct words and things will be great

 

[optisailor2002]

even when there are moments when you are tongue tied they might find you cute also xD

so just go up to her and ask her out. can either call or go to her house and ask her (which would be more sincere and more touching).

 

[yuangchin]

Initiate

well.. i maybe.. but i'm just scared that i will do the wrong thing..

but she will feel weird.. like.. why i suddenly ask her out.. so hw..

 

[Dime]

dude.dont waste the chance man.cause these things dont come by that often.do this with a mentality that you would come off this either a failure or success but not with regret.

yo initiate.i dont think you should call him pathetic.take a look at yourself before you go flame someone.he has come here to seek advice hoping it would come from the wise man.maybe you ain't wise enough to help him.

 

[wyldeboon]

dun be afraid la...
ok,below is 'my' step by step guide

1)kol her out a day or two in advance

2)ask her out saying tat u want to treat her for her bday

3)ok go? makes sure u know/plan where to eat. and choose the place wisely. dun anyhow choose like under void deck kopitiam or a super posh restaurant (unless u filthy rich la).get the presents ready.

4)upon meeting, pass her the presents and wish her hepi bday. compliment her by saying "u look gorgeous tonite", speak to her and look to her eyes not boobs.(women like man to look in their eyes) then proceed to the makan place.

5)eat, start a conversation

6)after finish ask her for a walk. walk2 la ard town or wat if u r in the area

7)last,send her home. right to her doorsteps. wish her goodnite and hepi bday again.
CONFIRM she will kol u later on.

if both of u are over the age limit, steps number 7 can be a different scenario. but it depends.

 

[van_halen]

just say u know this restaurant serves nice food, wanna go eat together or not? ask casually.

hmm btw this feels like densha otoko.. hahaha

 

[ShadowsDiamond]

yea jus ask..don be scared...

anw, the answer is either yes or no...

tats it

 

[ahkiatt]

Hold on, HOLD ON!

We're missing a very important element of this entire thread now.

Pics or she doesn't exist!

 

[van_halen]

haha i'm curious how old is the girl and the threadstarter

 

[empihsrow]

Haha, watch more movies. You'll definitely get ideas on how to get girls on a date. Hitch, for a start, will be a good try.

If I were you, I'd just ask her the very next time I see her[or I'll find ways to meet her]. Well, she will feel really bad turning you down when you're just right beside her if she isn't interested. That can prove crucial.

Unless you are trying to get a unsociable unreasonable crazy girl who doesn't give a shit to go on a date with you.

Which I think is unlikely.

 

[van_halen]

please ask her out now or tomorrow and update us on the progress

 

[HarrisonYeo]

and update if she said yes and did some stuff with u last night ^_^!!

 

[van_halen]

tomorrow is new year's eve, everything is laid out for you, so time to hit the town with her!